He is pretty new to the site, we have spoken a few times but haven't met yet as it has only been a couple of months and we live in different states. He expressed to me that he felt some genuine interest in getting to know me more and meeting soon. I replied with : Thank you I feel the same and you are a very attractive really nice guy so I know there are plenty of other women who are also interested in meeting you and who are local. He replied : Well I am interested in you so it doesn't matter if someone else lives 10 min away. Well a couple of days ago I get this email from him : I enjoyed our talks too i just wish you were closer it's hard for me to become more interested when there are women 10 minutes away that want to go out,it's not fair for me to be talking to them as well as you,you are a wonderful woman from what i know of you and who knows what the future holds but for now i need to be honest to you and myself,we can chat sometime if you like, take care.
2007-08-07 03:25:01 · 4 answers · asked by Intelfem7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very cautious and always meet in a public place.
We have spoken a few times over the phone as deep as conversations can get for the time period. I am aware it would be hard to pursue a long distance relationship but after meeting him and us getting to know each other and we mutually decided to pursue a relationship I would be open to relocating.
2007-08-07 03:28:21 · update #1
Let him come to your place, don't come to his, leave it to him to decide if he wants to see you. If you get closer, before you both will be sure of a serious relationship, you'll be jealous and worried, as you are so far from each other. But it is such a rare thing to meet one who is really interested with your talk, not with your long legs.
2007-08-07 04:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ekaterina E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie! Let's see where to start? Thr first thing I need to tell you, is for you not to compromise yourself for this man. He's not stable, way to wishywashy. He does not have your best interest at heart. I have a friend that met someone, packed all her life up, and moved states away for this man. He was not her dream man!!! Now she's unhappy and stuck somewhere she can't seem to get away from. If this guy is truly genuine, he will come to you! At least to meet you. Sounds like to me, he wants his cake and eat it to, by sending you that e_mail. Any man can say anything to get what they think they want, but please, please,please; think about this carefully before making such a great move. I'm trying to be honest about this, and am still optimistic about life. Just be aware, there are plenty of guys out there. One's that would come to you!!! Good Luck to ya! Please contact me if you need to!!
2007-08-07 07:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by angel_handz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but he wrote you off a couple of days ago in that email
"I enjoyed our talks"
"it's hard for me to become more interested"
"i need to be honest to you and myself,we can chat sometime"
He's pursuing a relationship in his area and he's trying to let you down easy. Don't go see him, you'll be putting him in an awkward position. You need to let this one go.
2007-08-07 03:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. Better let this one slide.
2007-08-07 03:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋