I just moved into this apartment complex. One of my neighbors is a nutcase. She doesn't work and does nothing all day but snoop into people's business. She keeps leaving notes on my door and following me.
What should I do? How do you deal with a person like this?
2007-08-07 03:21:10 · 12 answers · asked by riptide_71 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Restraining orders for $300, Alex?
Seriously, this person has a problem, and considering that she's harassing you, you have a problem as well. If you can't talk to her, and let her know she's making you uncomfortable, and if she's completely unavoidable, you might need to consider a restraining order.
I would try this as a last resort, though, since you do have to live there, and you'll still likely see her regularly.
2007-08-07 03:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kaezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just assertively tell her that you need your time to get your things done, and that you all can hang out only during certain hours because it is distracting you from things that you NEED to get done. As far as lthe notes go, if it really bothers you that much, then tell her that the apartment manager has asked that you stop recieving notes on your door, and told you that that is what a mailbox is for.
2007-08-07 11:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to actually involve the law enforcement with this. And have you talked with the apartment manager? It's pretty clear that the neighbor isn't going to listen.
Good luck!
2007-08-07 10:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep her notes, and show them to either the mgmt of your apartments, or the police. Nip it before it esclades into something worse.
Hopefully, she will ge the hint after a formal complaint is made.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-07 10:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by dardar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops.
2007-08-07 10:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her to stop, if that doesn't work call the police.
2007-08-07 10:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by idkmybffcheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and have a restraining order placed on her.
Once served, she will get the message. <}:-})
2007-08-07 10:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THIS PERSON IS STALKING YOU. AND WONT LEAVE YOU ALONE YOU SHOULD TRY TO TALK TO HER IF THAT DOESNT WORK YOU SHOULD CALL THE POLICE. THATS WHAT I WOULD DO .GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-07 10:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by cheryl z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common seance would tell me to talk to her about it or call the police , even a moron can figure that out.
2007-08-07 10:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop.If she doesn't listen call the cops.
2007-08-07 10:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋