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I have a female stalker that is consistantly trying to be with me. I try to avoid her, but somehow someway she is always following me. I will hear a knock at my door in the middle of the night, and I will find a note that asks me to marry her. She will leave food at my door saying that is the dinner i requested. She has also threatened any of my gfs that I have been sleeping with telling them that the next time they crawl in "our" bed she will make sure that it is the last. She called the police once on me saying how I beat her. Then she wrote an apology letter saying how she was wrong but I was wrong to for cheating on her. She has also announced our wedding in the local newspaper. My parents had to move and change their phone numbers because she found where they lived. It has been horrible. This fat girl wont leave me alone. Why cant she just go on a diet or something and look pretty so I can atelast try to make things work with her. Is there anything that I should do?

2007-08-07 03:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

restraining order
or sit her down and talk with her

2007-08-07 03:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Poptart 3 · 0 0

Totally avoid any communication with her at all costs. Even cussing her out is exactly what she wants from you--it's contact. Collect as much evidence as you can, like the wedding announcement etc. and take it to the police. File reports each time she does something that you have evidence of--notes, texts, voice mails etc. Please be careful. I've been in this situation and have spent more time in court over my stalker than I can even tell you. And it's been 15 months and it still isn't over. Good luck and be careful!

2007-08-07 03:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0 0

Wow! I have heard of stalkers but this one tops them all! Lucky you :) First thing first, you need to put a restraining order on her. Make sure your doors are locked constantly, sounds like she may do harm if she catches you with any other girls.

Have you tried talking to her and seeing what her interests are in a guy, maybe you could help her find someone else..?

2007-08-07 03:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Bird Questions 2 · 0 0

No, dude. Fat or not, she is insane like those crazy shows on Lifetime. You need a restraining order and delivered to her by the local Sherriff. Also, a notification to her parent may help.

2007-08-07 03:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by L J 3 · 2 0

RESTRAINING ORDER! COLLECT EVIDENCE!
There is NO NEGOCIATING with a stalker - they will NOT understand, they are deluded folk.... !

For your own safety, and the safety of your associates... call the police!

2007-08-07 03:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Easy. Save all the evidence that she is stalking you, then call the cops. She is breaking the law.

2007-08-07 03:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1 0

Oh, man. Did you try to get a restraining order against her?

2007-08-07 03:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

call the police, make reports about her stalking, get a restrainging order, whenever she violates it, call the police. build a case and have her put away.

2007-08-07 03:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 1 0

tell her in writing that you want nothiing to do with her. document the letter and everyhting she does so you have proof and get a restraining order.

2007-08-07 03:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by girl 3 · 0 0

go out with her then break up. call the police if that doesnt work.
keep a .45 or a 9millimeter just in case.......

2007-08-07 03:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Turkish Delight 2 · 0 0

Wow she sounds done right crazy you may want to call the cops on her.

2007-08-07 03:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by Ariel 5 · 1 0

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