GF is bi and has brought it up. I am concerned that it will have a negative effect on our relationship.
2007-08-07 03:01:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is, that you can't know if it'll be a problem or not until after it's done...unless you know ahead of time that the relationship already has issues with jealousy and insecurity.
It's a risky thing to do. Some couples do it successfully and enjoy the enhancement to their sex life...for others, it's the beginning of the end.
Dont' do it without a lot of careful consideration, talking with your partner, deciding ahead of time any boundaries/limits with regard to a playmate, and it shouldn't be a person either of you know (no bringing her best friend to the bedroom, for example). The more unfamiliar you are with the playmate, the less likely emotional attachments will develop.
2007-08-07 03:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It works for a few people... a very small, minority. Odds are it will mess up your relationship. You allow this, and the next thing you know all things go. In the end, though, it is a matter of trust. If you want to give it a try and totally trust her to not take this as a green light to sleep with whomever she wants, and you do not think jealousy is going to be a factor, then why not? The worst thing that can happen is that you'll contract an STD. Go for it!
2007-08-07 03:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married,yes.. This can create jealousy and mistrust.I am a believer you should sow you oats before getting married;in other words, get it all out of your system. If you are in the relationship for fun. no. have an open mind and go with the flow.
2007-08-07 03:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll cheat on you with a woman. If you are not comfortable with that, I suggest you get out of the relationship.
2007-08-07 03:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its never working ... try a straight one, that's guaranteed!
2007-08-07 03:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as you type your question it prompts numerous responses and this has been asked a hundred times.
2007-08-07 03:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋