real reason. He said the next day ..he knew I was tired cause he sensed the body language. I havent told him the real reason.. Should I? as I really love him.I dont want him to feel rejected every time I have my period as I think he thought I am going off him.??
2007-08-07 01:23:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth. If you guys are in a relationship that is mature enough to be sexual then be honest.
2007-08-07 01:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Most guys dont have a problem with making love while you are on your period. Just make sure you put a towel down or get in the shower. Everything shoud be fine...I hope this helps!
2007-08-07 08:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you should tell him. I mean...he is your boyfriend, he should know if you are going to have your period right? It is just a common courtesy and for sure it will help him learn to understand what it is that women have to deal with every month. It is also one of the safest times to have intercourse, albeit a bit messy.
Make him a part of your life if you love him, your whole life. Peace
2007-08-07 08:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by frankyzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for goodness sakes! If he is too delicate to know of a woman's menstrual cycle, then he is too delicate to be your lover, companion and all else. Just be straight but not crude and say, Sorry, It is the wrong time of the month for me. But I would love to hug and cuddle if that is cool... I can always use another great kiss and cuddle. If that does not defrost him then stuff him.
Cheers
Lisa
2007-08-07 08:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as hes not 12, he should understand the basics of biology and not be turned off. You can still have sex anyway if your menstrating, just put down a towel or something.
Ps Be confident in who you are. Enjoy your sexuality
2007-08-07 08:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the real reason. Its a perfectly normal reaction on your part and it is something that is going to come up every month (hopefully!).
2007-08-07 08:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tom T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you were on your period. All guys should know that girls have their periods and it's perfectly fine. Instead of keeping on the dl, tell him. He'll understand. My boyfriend always lays off because he knows how crappy and disgusted i feel when i'm on my period. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
OH AND MIRAGE
letme tell you what your missing out on
Him pulling out a bloody dagger after he sticks it in you
Sh!ts disgusting.
2007-08-07 08:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
Sex is actually supposed to be better when you're on your monthly.. but also not something to do with someone you haven't been with for a while. It is also said to relieve cramps and other period symptoms..
If he thinks its okay to do it on those days.. go for it!
Whats to miss out on? besides gettin dirty? You get sex, cramps relieved and better orgasms!
2007-08-07 08:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mirage 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are having sex and you're comfortable with him seeing you naked, you should definitely feel comfortable telling him that you have your period. All men are VERY understanding about this matter.
2007-08-07 08:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for oral sex whenever u feel not comfortable. A perfect ******** is as satisfying as the full sex. trust me yr boy friend will wait for the time when u will get your next period. As for him its ******** time. Oh god it even sound sexy.
2007-08-07 08:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Raja G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋