he beats me...?

Question

i cant tell anyone... i feel so trapped inside like i am alone..
see, im the only child and my parents divorced and i live with my dad now and i havent talk to my mother ever since i was little. my dad sometimes get "stressed out" and goes off on me. he drinks everyday and he beats me almost everyday. i cant stand it anymore. i need to tell someone but i feel like so hurt to tell anyone... he repeated always that if i tell someone that he beats me he is going to track me down somehow and get me killed... I JUST CANT STAND THE BEATING ANYMORE!!! i pray everyday for something to stop him but nothing ever happened yet. what should i do??? i need to do something soon because i cant take it anymore.. i feel like suicide is the second choice.. please anwser soon and thank you in advance.

Answer 1

http://www.domesticviolence.com don't take anyone hitting you call the police have him arrested. Press charges make sure he can't do it again. Have no mercy or pity on a man like that. http://www.childabuse.com I was abused as a child. I don't know how old you are. But still your old enough to be able to call the police. Tell them he threatens you. Tell them all.

Answer 2

hey, that sounds awful and no doubt in a third world country he would succeed in tracking you down.

darl, I think you need to tell someone you trust. It really sounds like hell. And it's also hard to find someone whom you can confide in. It would in particular be crazy to tell the police.

But you need to get out of there.

Perhaps there is a kids helpline you can call? In Australia its 1800 551 1800 and its a toll-free number. They may be able to direct you some place and you may be able to file for an apprehended domestic violence order where you confront police. This will allow your father to stay physically away from you (I'm not sure how effective or repulsive it may be)

You may have an aunt or uncle that you can talk to. I would recommend that.

Good luck.

Answer 3

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*EDIT* Note: ^For the comment ABOVE^.
I had to see his profile and it seems he is lying. What a sick hobby indeed... To the person who asked this question:
Just to let you know I left a comment because I cared about your situation. A child being abused is not funny. Suicide isn't funny either. If this is your game of funny... then you are heartless. Good luck... if you are planning to run your own comedian show because for sure I know those sits will be empty. If not those sits would prob be thrown at you. lol. =P
Anyway... I still wanted you to read my comment... because I wrote it with my heart... because i have one. In reality... reading encouraging comments like these will change your mind that... there is actually good people out there willing to help.

***I SPEAK MY MIND FOR ALL THE ABUSED CHILDREN***
Honey, I know what you are going through. I grew up living with an abusive father. I did too also thought of suicide, but never think of ending your life because of this bastard. First off, I would like to admire you for being so strong and putting up with his bullshit, but you cannot let this go on. Second off, you need to act soon before it's too late... where is your mother? if she cares for you maybe you could run away and stay with her. Please do something... you have a future ahead of you and you CAN NOT LET some idiot who treats you like trash ruin it for you. You are special like everyone else. Please stay strong. Stand up for yourself and do what is best for you. Who cares what he would think. Funny thing is when you said your dad threathin to kill you... my dad said the same. Even tho they are prob just words coming from an angry drunk men... because he has completly lost his senses. He will realize how bad of a father is when he put his time in jail. If you think about it... how else could this situation be done? Don't let this go on. And Again Always Stay strong. Bless you. I wish you the best.

P.S. Because something like this happen to you never appear weak. Just think because of this you survive a horrible cause and you are stronger then ever.

Answer 4

You need to contact the police and ask them for help. They can get you in touch with people that can get you out of there. The crisis hot line can help you as well. You need to get out of there before it is too late. Start getting your things together now. Medical cards, SS card, some money anything that is important and pack a suitcase. When you are ready make the call. If he hurts you go to the hospital, make sure you let the hospital staff know and they will get you help as well and if your dad is with you they may arrest him and take you into protective custody. You need to do something before he hurts you bad and it is too late.

Answer 5

Tell someone! A counselor, a teacher, a friend's parent, the police. Tell everyone. You can get help. More times than not, an abuser uses the "I will kill you if you tell anyone" as a means to manipulate the abused so as not to get caught. Tell someone. Perhaps your mother would even like to help.

Answer 6

If you have a mobile phone or if youdont use a public phonebox (it's free), when you out the house at anytime, phone the police, or childline(0800 1111) and tell them, the situation, tell them you cant go back, because of the consequences and ask ifyou can be taken away, so the police can deal with the situation, and get you living, witha caring guardian. xxxxx:)

Answer 7

how old are you? you need to put a stop to it now he'll end up killing you anyway! this is abuse pure and simple it's a bad cycle and if you continue to let him beat you, you'll soon begin to think it's ok for someone else to hit you. then you'll end up with an abusive boyfriend or husband!! get strenght get help and get out some loving family member will take you in

Answer 8

Report him to the cops. I know it will be hard to do but your fathers behaviour is not acceptable. If he did that to some random person in the street where do you think he would be? You deserve better. If you live in a western country there is so much support for victims of abuse so please let the authorities know ASAP

Answer 9

My father beat me as well... tell someone... its more humiliating to endure the beatings then to tell someone that it is happening... dont consider suicide im on anti-depressants because of that -_-

Answer 10

I went back and read your other questions and your answers to other peoples questions. You are obviously not a child and not being beaten. Get another hobby, and your reported.