My lil cousin who is 17 is going out with a guy who is 23. well she came around my place and she said we needed to talk in private, she like can u please my boyfriend if he used protection last night when they slept together ,I was like are u serious, were u drunk I asked, she said no but shes not sure if he wore protection or not becouse the lights were out, she keeps calling me but i havent aswerd my phone how am i exposed to ask her boyfriend and bring the topic up, she's not helping at all.Question is .Is this possible for a person not to no, and have u guys ever been in situation ,and how can I sove it becouse I told her to ask him herself but she like na i can't ask.
2007-08-06 21:14:19 · 7 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should ask, but I am sure that any 23 yr old would wear a condom with a minor.
2007-08-07 03:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a balsy girl and I do speak my mind. If your lil cousin is too afraid to ask then step up. I know it's not ur problem but you do care about her so maybe you could say something. She shoulda felt a little bit of a difference obviously. I can tell a difference. I'd be helping her get on some sorta birth control pills as well. She can always go to planned parenthood depending on where you are located to be put on birth control. your cousin should ask if she's mature enough to sleep with her boyfriend, she can be mature enough to ask!
2007-08-07 04:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jen22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that your cousin is being inconsistent in this relationship. If she is grown enough to date this guy and have sex with him, she should be grown enough to talk to him about their intimacy. Let me say this with all stress of importance... DO NOT ASK HIM THAT QUESTION! It is not your place, honestly. Also, it is possible for a person to not know IF the person had been drugged or was drunk, and she has already denied being drunk which leaves two other alternatives. Tell your cousin, she has a lot of growing up to do. If she has any concerns, she needs to address them immediately. Then tell her you'll be there for her and leave it at that.
2007-08-07 04:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by ***Sparkle*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She is way to immature to be having sex if she doens't know how to use protection and make sure the guy is wearing it.
2. It's not your job to talk to her boyfriend. If she doesn't feel comfortable enough discussing it with him, she shouldn't be doing it.
2007-08-07 04:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should have the maturity to ask, if shes to be drinkng under age, and fkn some guy whos over the age limit, is the at satutory Rpe, so tell her to grow up, and have an adult conversation, she shouldnt have to envolve you in her life, in that manner.
2007-08-07 04:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by kaneselo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-07 04:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Raju L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋