What I don't get about girls and clubs(ladies pls)?

Question

So why do women go to clubs dressed provacatively and sexy if they don't want to get hit on?

And whats with the word cute? If a woman is wearing something hot, it's cute. Cute!

I believe cute is a kitten personally, not some piece of lingerie.

Serena: You need provocative clothes for self confidence?

and to guys, dressing like that means Go go go

Answer 1

i get what you mean, which is why i don't club frequently because i am so sick of my friends dressing up the way they do and then whine and complain about getting hit on.

i know some of my friends want the attention, but pretend not to like it to be 'humble'.

sometimes i just want to b*tchslap them and tell them to get a life.

but most of the time girls just wanna look hot and feel sexy, appreciated and admired from men by afar. getting hit on can be flattering but it is quite irritating.

Answer 2

Firstly.....its not dressing provocatively......its building self confidence.

Secondly.....why do you men always think its all about you......we dress for ourselves.....to make us feel good about ourselves and not to fulfil any dumb guys fantasy.....

Thirdly......you guys need to learn to keep your pants on.....a woman is a personality of her own and not just some chick male fantasy......so just bcoz a woman's all dressed up doesn't automatically give you the right to hit on her....

And lastly.....there's always the point that even if she does want to get hit on.......maybe she's just not interested in you.....(don't want to hurt any egos but its true)

So just remember that women dress for themselves first and only then for the men and they are waiting for their perfect guy.....so if your not it.......they're not interested in your attention.

Cute is an overall term that most women use to define something they find emotionally appealing......if you're a "cute" guy means you've got a good chance of a long term relationship coz it means she feels emotionally attached to you're ways.

A "cute" dress is something that makes the woman feel good about herself as well as confident that she can achieve what she wants. It has again to do with emotional attachment and understanding.

A woman would only use the word "hot" when she believes that the object is physically appealing but may or may not be emotionally appealing....thus a long term relationship is unsure at least in the beginning.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Because they want to look hot... not rocket science. Would you go into a club with a t-shirt and hippie skirt? I didn't think so. Girls like to look pretty.

Nothing is wrong with the word cute...

Answer 5

sometimes girls go out dressed like that cos they want to look hot...not just for guys but for themselves..just cos a girl has a short skirt on doesnt mean shes easy and wants to be hit on...why cant girls dress for who they want to be without jerks causing them grief!

Answer 6

Women who dress like that want to get hit on. If they say otherwise, it's because they don't want to get hit on by that particular guy.

Answer 7

Becasue dey just wanna look good and they don't needa guy hitting on them they just wanna be looked at so next time u see a good looking girle try talking to then insted of watever u do

Answer 8

you're right on the cute note. and woman who dress like that do want to get hit on. they think its fun to turn guys on then tell them to get lost.