Well last night I was in my room and I was mad at my mom and her boyfriend, so I said some really nasty and mean stuff about them. I later found out that they were listening outside the door and heard every word...I cried my eyes out and I apolygized a billion times..They said they were okay, but a little hurt...I feel so wrong, how can I overcome someting like this...I feel so regretful... I feel so embarrassed to face them and I think that this has damaged our relationship, but they said that it was okay..what should I do...we've already talked it through, but I feel so mean and hurtful...
2007-08-06 20:56:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They have thicker skin than you give them credit for. Now that they have forgiven you, it's time that you forgive yourself and put it behind you. Someday you are going to have kids and they will most likely do the same to you. It doesn't mean that any of this means much. It just means that things said out of anger and hurt aren't meant to be taken seriously. Your mom and her boyfriend must know this and that's why they don't hold you accountable. Thy probably did the same thing at a certain point in their lives too.
The thing that matters the most is that you feel remorse and are truly sorry for the things that you said. To apologize like you did shows real character on your part and a great amount of adult maturity. It doesn't make it OK for what you did, it just means that you are capable of learning from your mistakes and that it's something that you won't repeat. People get mad and they say things and act out. They can also forgive and forget which is what you should do also. If you didn't seen how badly you acted or if you just didn't care then things would have been worse off. But you didn't act that way. You tried to make things better and in doing so you succeeded in becoming a better human being who is capable of earning the pride and being the admiration of others.
2007-08-06 21:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your mistakes and don't do it again. Also, you are obviously angry about somethng. You might want to get to the bottom of that. Saying things you don't mean is like trying to put toothpaste back in the tube, impossible. In time, everyone will get over it. Forgive yourself for not being perfect, no one is.
2007-08-07 00:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are a young person in kid mode, adults understand that you say things that you don't mean exactly. It's a lesson in life, the words you choose matter, so use this as a learning experience.
2007-08-06 22:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to say things we don't mean when we are angry. Anger makes us irrational. If your mom and stepdad were eavesdropping outside your room, then it is their problem that they heard you say hurtful things. They know this and are forgiving you. Maybe you should let them know that you forgive them too for not respecting your privacy and then you can all move on. Good luck!
2007-08-07 00:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were angry, we all get angry at times and say things we don't mean. How about buying them something or helping out more around the house to show you're truly sorry? All will be forgiven in time, you just have to make sure that your guilt doesn't get to you.
2007-08-06 21:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by star_light_star_bright_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me once.. when I did something wrong with my parents, and I felt so guilty.. But I realized that I'm a human and I'm not perfect.. we live in a sinful nature where we always instantly want to do something bad first without have to think about it at first. But we need to practice to do good things.
so, just apologize to them, and do something good, and I believe they will understand =) all the best to you!
2007-08-06 22:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Yohanes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already talked about it. So there's no prob anymore. All you have to do is to erase that guilt feeling. They are old enough to understand things like that. Just dont do it again.
2007-08-06 21:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by chester david 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they said it was okay.okay in lips,but not okay on their heart.yes or nope its gonna be so hurt listenin to your daughter who said nasty stuff..
one things you should do,is control your word next time!
2007-08-06 21:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by PARTTIMEROCKER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u can put ur mind on a different subject, since they said it was ok...............
2007-08-06 21:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋