so my bf's type is a bland with big boobs im neither. im brunette with small boob.(i am pretty i know that, im nice and everything)but im still not bland with big boobs so why is he with me (we've been together for about 8 month now)
2007-08-06 20:05:55 · 21 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not hard to get blonds with big boobs nowadays, everything is fixable... so, if he is with you, I think he likes you, especially if you are beautiful and nice. The blond with big Boobs might be his ideal or a dream woman, or something like this, but 8 months is a long time... and if he wanted he could have found one like that during all that time. I think you do not need to worry.
2007-08-06 20:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Esmeralda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just take it for what it is. I could love a girl regardless of the size of the boobs. You sound a little insecure about yourself. If anything it is your insecurity that can push a BF away. I am brown and I love white women but there is something about brown women that drives me crazy. It's all chemicals in a guys brain. So just be yourself and have him like you for your brunetteness and small 00
2007-08-07 03:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by William Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE small chested women. They usually have better / slimmer / tighter bodies too.
And often prettier too, and dare I say, without shovels in their make-up boxes too? [come one think how many big chested, overly painted women you've seen].
On Jerry Springer, he had the big chest / small chest issue on stage, and invited some 'models' for the audience to judge. Anyway, the small chest women were absolutely gorgeous in the face, and with way more natural bodies too.
Most of the big chested women were quite typical of the blonde big boob dogs you can see on any beach.
And of course the men in the audience choose the big chested women as the 'most beautiful', but anyone who looked past that could see the others were way more pretty, and my girl friend agreed too.
My 2c.
2007-08-07 03:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you've been together for 8 months.. obviously his type is brunette with small boobs. Don't feel like you're not good enough for him or you're not what he wants because obviously you are and you need to get that through your head. He's with you because he wants to be with you, not necessarily for your looks.
2007-08-07 03:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by themasterchiefer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two possibilities here. Either your total package is something he desires more than Blond and Boobs or Your just the best option he has at the moment.
If you have doubts in your relationship perhaps you should reconsider your place in that relationship.
Its a two way street. If he does not want you, or you do not want him, its time to move on.
2007-08-07 03:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by cryptotich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a lover of big boobs i think i can answer this.
it is very hard to get everything in one girl. i would prefer a 5' 2" 75 lbs, G cup, bi sexual. and rich.
and my chances of finding that ?
so guys settle for either big boobs on some one we cant stand, or little boobs on someone we like.
it just means he really has to like you to stay with you.
unless your bi sexual and rich, then there might be another reason.
2007-08-07 03:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone dream and fantasize about a certain picture perfect looking mate. I love black cars but i don't buy never have and never will but I love the shine when they are all polished up. I love to look at them but i don't need to own one so looks on a woman is close to the same thing. So just enjoy that he likes you the way you are.
2007-08-07 03:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes to look at the bland big breasts, but he probably doesn't want that in a relationship. You must be fulfilling him in a way no big breasted bimbo could.
2007-08-07 03:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you for what you are on the inside. He hangs out with you because of your personality, and that is relationship that you want to hold on to. Too many are based on looks. You might marry for the looks, but you're stuck with the personality.
2007-08-07 03:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the only one who can answer that. Aside from physical attributes, maybe you have the personality that he wants in a woman. Do not be insecure for he chose to be with you.
2007-08-07 03:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy M.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋