how long did it take you to adjust from the transition of being single to dating a guy - then becoming boyfriend and girlfriend?
I am just trying to get use to dating this guy, it has been a week. Had a bit of a freak out on the weekend.
How do you make the transition an easier process?
(I am in my early 20's)
2007-08-06 19:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is all new to me- a bit scary.
2007-08-06 19:54:35 · update #1
If it's a big drama ordeal, then he's not the guy for you. It's not a "transition", there shouldn't be anything to get used to. The only thing changing is that you aren't dating other people, just him. And you should want to do that at this point. If you don't, then don't make the commitment to be the girlfriend.
2007-08-06 19:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always going to be difficult when you start out. Now it will seem like he's all you think about day-by-day, and you seem to spend a lot of time with him, but that will pass, eventually. After your relationship gets into the flow, after a little while, it will seem more natural. Trust me, there's no easy way to make the transition simple. You just have to wake up one morning, look in the mirror, and be like, "I have a boyfriend! Yay!". :)
2007-08-07 02:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by stormy.! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about your status with the guy... whether you are dating or actually in a relationship or just having some fun, your not anywhere close to being married or anything yet so just go with it and have some fun!! Don't worry so much about the particulars.
2007-08-07 02:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by lindz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Transition? Shouldn't it just fit? I mean, are you comfortable being around him or do subconcious alarms go off in your head? Maybe I didn't understand your question.
2007-08-07 02:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by sam f & family 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow why does it have to be so serious. Loosen up some.
2007-08-07 02:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to think of him as more like your best friend so you can be more comfortable with him
2007-08-07 02:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me and my first boyfriend met at a club
and then he asked me for my fone number and we started talking
and then he asked me to be his girlfried and i said yes
our relationship started to grow and then eventually we fell apart
2007-08-07 02:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by HeRsHeY1KiSsEs5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you used to do things by yourself. Now you just do them with someone else. No biggy.
2007-08-07 02:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Doug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow.. if its meant to be it will all work out.. :-)
2007-08-07 02:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by *edb* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! it jst like riding a bike..it's hard at first but you get the hang of it pretty fast!!
i know it's scary for sure! but justtake your time don't rush anything just to please him...just be true to yourself!!!!
2007-08-07 02:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by julienanablanche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋