!!!!!DUDE I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE I WANNA MOVE THE **** OUT I'AM FED UP WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY ddADDDD

Question

well i'am a 18 year old guy Ok iserously don't know what to do. i smoke ok..and i just can't stop..seroiusly i can't..i'am trying but its not like a one time things where you can just stop..maybe to other people but not me..and my dad hates smoking..he hates it...He always threatens to kill me if i smoke next time and i will shoot you and you will die...seroiusly that just scares the hell out of me..today he's like i'am gonna kill you and watch the police come and take me to jail and then he's calling me like sister fuker and dad ******..and all this..i just can't stand to listen to this **** anymore..i'am tired of it...i'am going crazy ..i just feeel like leaving and moving outt and go..seriously sometimes i think he's relaly gonna kill me someday..itsthankx to my mom,, she calms him down...should i just go

Answer 1

slow down. sounds like Dad has a probelm that is nothing to do with you, you are just around to deal with it. take a deep breath, and understand this is not you. Been there, got the t shirt. you can do nothing, this is a bigger issue, too big to deal with here, seek help, GP, mencap, social services, an y **** about stigma is crap, trust me, do it now before your whole family suffers. please contact me if you need a shoulder, but please get others involved in keeping him, and you safe. he loves you, obviously, and you love him, otherwie you wouldn't be writing here. help him, and look after yourself.

Answer 2

honey, what are you smoking? The anger sems a little extreme, and cussing at your sister is so very wrong, sounds like some family tharapy is in order. Talk with your Mom about it. If that dosen't work do you have a school councellor, or a minister, or a family friend you can talk to?

Answer 3

Since you're 18 now, you can leave and save yourself some worry.