When i was 10 I had a huge crush on a guy named Nate..Then when i was 14 i Fell in love with him. I would get butterflys.. No matter what if it had to do with him i would get butterflys. Now i am dating one of him friends. They are not close friends but they are friends. I am going through the same thing with this guy...Before i started dating him i was dating another guy...I never got butterflys arround him...But i feel way different with Matt..... Am i falling in love with Matt now? PLz help me i need to know what u guys think
2007-08-06 16:29:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that just because you get butterflys when you see him, it doesnt mean you love him. i think you need to reevaluate what love really is and add some expirience under your belt before you start thinking about whether or not your in love
2007-08-06 16:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are confusing love with "liking someone a bit more than friends", since you have had so many guys in such short a time. You're only 14 and don't even come close to knowing what love is all about yet. Boys come and go like the seasons at your age and for quite some time in your future. So stop playing the "I love you this week" game and trying to be Little Miss Popularity with the Flavor of the Week until you grow up a lot. Else you'll be finding yourself in a lot of trouble boys can cause cutting your life short and making you regret taking them so serious so early.
2007-08-06 23:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going thru a normal developmental thing.. Butterflys are normal. Be smart and don't put yourself into a position that you will regret later. Stand back and LOOK...Do what is best for you. Always and evermore keep your self respect at all times.
2007-08-06 23:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your heart belongs to Nate. I think the thing you've got for Matt is probably hormones. Hold out for Nate.
2007-08-06 23:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Ive liked a lot of guys. and maybe u have to? idk cuz i dunno u...lol XDD buht ya noe, love is...complicated. no1 noes what love relli is. Is love about 2 people admiring each other? is love about the 2 people havin fun and laughing all te way? Is love...etc. U never noe if love is love. I mean maybe u might love sum1 and then jis want to be friends with them. So, the only person in the world who knows what ur feeling is u. I hoped i helped >< oh and yeah im not makin sense cuz u asked fur help becuz u ddint noe love and im sayin the only person who neos ur love is u >< sorry...
2007-08-06 23:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Butterflies are lust and they go away over time. Real love starts after that.
2007-08-06 23:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have butterflies it doesnt necessarily mean youre in love...but it just means you like this guy a lot and get happy/ excited when you know your going to see him... take it slow and see where it goes from there!!! hope this helps!
2007-08-06 23:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by ashley s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you enjoy the sensation of falling in love, be careful with that and always follow your heart.
2007-08-06 23:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by King Landon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone can really explain love but if u have a huge passion for this guy id go with your hearts feelings
2007-08-06 23:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by erin g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think gah me too..lol. this dude jeremy kissed me on the mouth when i was a toddler. i thought he was "cute" in kindergarten. he asked me out like 3 times..i asked him out once. each time we said no. i was nervous to go out with him & in 5th grade he lost interest. he gives me a heartattack everytime i seee um. we are in middle school now..ugh im cursed..lol. i dont think about him much tho ne more..thats good..i guees:)
2007-08-06 23:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋