I just recently ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with my ex. We had so little in common, and I had felt unattracted to him for about 2 1/2 months, but finely got up the nerve to say something. Communication was clearly bad. Also, within the last 2 months or so, I have become quite close with a coworker. But he's 6 years older than me! I'm 20, he just turned 26. Is it wrong to be seeing him, or want to pursue a relationship?? I don't think its rebound, I've been single now for about a month, just seeing people on and off, dating. But he seems right...... I dont know. What do you think?
2007-08-06 16:23:18 · 3 answers · asked by miss anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
older guys rock!! but be open to your emotions. be straight with him. and hold out for a while before you do stuff..so you make sure you have an emotional connection
2007-08-06 16:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation a few months ago and I was really nervous about it as well. The best advice I got was this: You're not committing to marriage by agreeing to meet him for a drink. Go for it! If you get there and it's awful and you feel guilty or you can only think about your ex, then you know that it's too early to start meeting people. But if you go and you have a blast - then there's nothing wrong with that! Just take it slow and let yourself be guided by how you're feeling.
2016-05-20 02:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years, you suddenly realized you had nothing in common? That's a total copout...something made you stay for 2 years. If you think working with someone you have a crush on is weird, wait until you date and break up. NEVER, EVER, date someone you work with. Not only will your personal reputation be ruined, but so will your professional reputation.
2007-08-06 16:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋