Okay My girlfriend just brokeup with me (i was planning to dump the next day...) and i already feel as if I'm in love again. I don't even feel bad about her dumping me. I feel bad about not feeling bad. What should do Go after the other girl (who i had a little crush on and off since kindergarten), get my mind straight, or something else?
2007-08-06 16:08:18 · 14 answers · asked by DaRiste 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant thinking about dumping her the next day
2007-08-06 16:09:02 · update #1
Why had been dating for 9 months
2007-08-06 16:13:05 · update #2
Sounds like puppy love, you don't feel bad because your feelings for her were not that deep. Apparently her's weren't either. I wouldn't worry about it, move on with your love life.
2007-08-14 04:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by words777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get back in the game as fast as you can. Don't even feel bad about the dumping, because then you let yourself start questioning yourself on what you might have done wrong (unless you were doing something wrong to cause it and want to improve your chances the next time around). Go after your old crush if you feel into it. Girlfriends are just girlfriends. You're not married. They can come and go like the seasons if you let them.
2007-08-06 23:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
REBOUND.
if you think you're in love, then you will have no issues waiting to see if the feelings are real and mutual. give it a month and see if that's how you really feel or else you're just trying to find someone to replace the person you were with or fill the empty space in your life. it won't work out, trust me i've been there.
2007-08-14 14:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude totally go after the other girl. Don't feel bad. she dumped you. You're FREE to do whatever the hell you want. Obviously this girl is the one you want. Good Luck!
2007-08-14 20:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by November Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were gonna break up with her and she broke up with you the relationship pretty much was over for a week maybe more. if you feel that way dont feel bad cause u cant help it if you like someone else. SHE DUMPED YOU!!! KISS HER A>S>S GOODBYE
2007-08-14 10:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by perfecting inperfection 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get you head straight first. Don't be so quick to jump back on the scene. lay back for a while give your self some down time.
2007-08-14 17:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get your min dstraight don't try 2 jump n a relationship just like that after you got out 1 u wowuld never want your heart to get broken again......gud luckâ¥
2007-08-14 15:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by *♥MiiSz uNiiQu3♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off the chicks for a while and "get your mind straight".
2007-08-14 09:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on cuz if ur not that sad u didn't really care about the other girl anyway. go after the other girl just make sure she ain't ur rebound girl.
2007-08-06 23:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Edith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's puppy love...move on and you'll be fine...that ony mean that you weren't really feeling the other girl anyway. Good Luck
2007-08-06 23:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by D N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋