Do you think that dating is good after a break up..?

Question

I mean, do you think that it is a good idea to date a lot, without getting intimate or involved quickly after a sad break up?

Answer 1

it is tough, but after you take that look at yourself and what went wrong then it's probably best to get back into the swing of things and take it on full bore

Answer 2

No . . its a BAD idea.

Because its TOTALLY unfair to the guy you are dating if you have no intention of being intimate (or offering your affection) while expecting HIM to want to date you. . . and all of the things that go along with it.

If you INTENTIONALLY calculated that you don't want to get invloved . . then -->> DON'T GET INVOLVED.

Going out with someone JUST FOR THE "ATTENTION" with ZERO INTEREST IN GIVING YOUR "AFFECTION" is pretty selfish . . and it doesn't take a genius to agree.

Stay single until you are READY.

Because if you don't,
and the guy is not getting out what YOU expect him to put in,
then he will dump you,
and you will think of him as a "jerk".
even though YOU WENT INTO IT
with the WRONG MENTALITY.

Men are not interested in investing their TIME
in a woman who is not interested in being WORTH his TIME.

And you can NEVER blame them for that.
because HE has a right to go out there and get
whatever he wants AS MUCH AS YOU DO.

And that doesn't make him a "jerk".

:)

Answer 3

Stay single for bit after any break up so you can evaluate what went wrong.