i know this boy in my school and i have a huge crush on him but i dont think he likes me , what should i do?

Question

so i know this boy and he found out that i had a crush on him but i don't think he likes me back. its now really embarrassing for me to even talk to him! help!

Answer 1

well if you cant talk to him, then I suppose you must not like him very much...


Oh you do do you? Then why not go for it? unless you want to never get anywhere. thats cool too.

Answer 2

Tell him not to flatter himself, it's just a small crush.

Acting too interested in somebody will extinguish their feelings.

An analogy that may work for dating someone you have a crush on would be building a fire. At first, it's easy to smother but as it grows bigger and hotter, the more it can consume.

Building a relationship with a crush is much like building a fire in the sense that you have to be careful and make sure you even have a spark going before you can hope to build a fire.

How do you make a spark? To continue the analogy, I guess you would have to find a tool and use it to produce one. Everyone has qualities that are in some way appealing to someone else. Use your qualities to gain his attention and then you need to play a little hard to get but not so much he begins to lose interest thinking that you don't like him.

Answer 3

i have the same problem. well try talking to him more and don't be so shy. that would help. and look, it's only a boy, don't be so depresed. in a year or 2 you will prbly like someone new(it took me more that a year to get a new crush when i understood that he is not the greatest)and know. that some one also likes you even thow you think not. don't wory about it so much!!!!

Answer 4

Well just keep hanging out with him like you normally do, just try not to flirt and maybe take like a friend with you to hint if you're flirting, like a code-word or a nudge or something. The more you guys hang out, the closer you guys get. Or if you feel confident just like tell him, " Ok so somebody said I liked you. Well I still wanna be friends." or something like that. Just try to be open with him. The exact same thing happened with me and he ended up liking me too. Oh and also just be yourself around him. Don't try to be somebody ur not coz guys really hate that. Stay confident and good luck!

Answer 5

Get over your embarrassment! Talk to him,,act normal,and be yourself,,don't be all gushy..some guys are sooooooooooo
shy,you won't ever talk to them if you don't make the first move.

Answer 6

look honey that's the part that's hard when you have a crush you get a crush then you want to hurry let him know you dig him but guys don't like that. you gotta play hard to get. let him come to you.. you don't want to make it seem like your desperate. and you want to get with him. now he found out you like him but he aint acting like he likes you . back off and don't let him know you like him more than a friend. maintain your niceness towards him but don't put yourself out there where your able to get hurt by finding out he don't like you. he knows you like him right? now let him come to you to take it further.

Answer 7

Aww, that happened to me.. Well, I guess he doesnt like ya... But theres only two ways.. One is to try to talk to him more to make him get to like ya, or the other way is to move on and find someone else.

Answer 8

Act like you have no idea that he knows and try being his friend. Don't treat him any different than your other friends and see if your relationships blossoms into a flower or a thorn.

Answer 9

if you really like someone you cant be shy. i think you should go up to him and tell him the truth. if you dont want to do that then maybe ask a friend to see if he likes you.

Answer 10

You can try hard and you can try soft.......soft will get him everytime. Ignore him. The fire was on and now it is time to put on the ice. He already knows you like him....make him wonder!