So I had a date with a guy about 3 weeks ago and it was great or so I thought. The next day he called and we talked for a couple of minutes then he said he would call me later well that was about 3 weeks ago. He didn't text me for a couple of days after that night so I asked him what was up and he claimed that his phone was messing up. I decided to give him some space and let him enjoy a trip he was taking with his family well the whole week while he was away on his trip he text me and now he stopped again im a little confused as to why he is acting this way. I decided to stop sending him any text just like he did so what would you guys recommend? If he starts with the text again should I just move on I mean it's really bothering me. He is single so I know it's not about a wife/gf thing.
2007-08-06 16:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm how long does he need to blow it off before you get it?
2007-08-06 16:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 2 days! He will probably ask her to go some place during the week. He needs time to set something up. He's probably not the txting type either. She can't think this is a sign that he's not that interested in her. And no this cannot be considered dating. Usually that is kind of understood after 2 or 3 dates.
2016-05-20 02:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm the very cautious, once bitten type. My guys complain that I'm a lot like dating a guy, haha. Don't hold your breath waiting for that phone call. I sure wouldn't want to text, huh? who? Since I'm very busy and meet/deal with a lot of people. He could be the very cautious type or he could not be all that interested. It takes me a while. That's kind of my little test, if I still remember him in a month, and he remembers me, I must have liked him more than I thought. Terrible of me but I think I suffer from male brain syndrome. This one I'm dating now waited for about 2 months, after the first date. I had to simmer on that one and he didn't push. Heck, that made him worth considering a second date that he wasn't a nag/cling on. Oh yeah. They do that too. A lot of those know why the girls get mad now. If they get to be a real pain, I do text huh? who? just another pain in the neck number ___ is all I'll recall. Everyone says they want a responsible take care of bidness girlfriend, but sheeze, how often am I waiting by the phone is about never. If you really like him and he really likes you, he'll get around to it, and you won't be mad at him.
2007-08-06 16:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesnt want nothing serious between you, because when a guy is really into you, he keep in touch,,and there is no good excuse to not text anymore, even a simple " I miss you". If he does not have at least 2 minutes to say.."how are you? so, that because he is not so into you as you think, it is not fair to you keep waiting..move on...try to forget him...or if you dont want to move on, so try to not worry about it, keep your mind occupied with other things,,and dont wait so much, because it sucks and you will get hurt.... if he texts you again, good! but dont make so many questions,, act naturally, and dont show you were so anxious. so good luck
2007-08-06 16:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Laurasearching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase him. If a guy is really into you, you'll know it, he won't go that long with out talking to you, and if he's not that into you, no matter how hard to try you can't change it. Don't waste your time..Move on. Maybe at a later date you'll run into each other and he'll be interested again, but right now is not it so don't wait. Life's short, play hard, Nike.
2007-08-06 16:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. If he was interested, he's call you and ask you out again, not just text you a couple of times.
2007-08-06 16:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry so much bout this one guy. I personally don't get this whole texting thing. What happened to old fashion talking on the phone till 2am like normal people.
2007-08-06 16:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well his phone could be messing up and hes telling the truth or he's lying and meeting other people and messing you about,either way you cant find out for sure unless u ask..........
sorry but it is really one of the only ways to find out,so next time he texts be straight with him and ask him what is up........
would you rather find out the truth or be left hanging and not knowing what is up and kept being stringed along?
2007-08-06 16:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him whats going on.. nothing wrong with that, Just tell him you don't want to waste your time or his time. Talking things out is the best way to work out problems!
2007-08-06 16:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Warren G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not as interested in you as you are of him. Move on...don't sit around thinking that there's something wrong with you. Good Luck
2007-08-06 16:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by D N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just say screw it. This guy seems shady, and you deserve better than that. If he texts or calls you again, I wouldn't respond.
2007-08-06 16:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Brylee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋