Well a few months ago at church I saw this guy and its like the moment we locked eyes there was this connection.And he kept staring at me....But someone told me he moved away for few months,and then hes moving back....But its weird because I still think about him do you think he even remembers me???...Or am I just weird???
I hope I see him again....
2007-08-06 15:58:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I didnt ask for a spell check....lol...I messed up,it happens..!!!
2007-08-06 16:02:49 · update #1
gurl u better find ya man......cause he just might be ur soulmate!
2007-08-06 16:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way with a guy and I thought he was the one, but he wasn't; we were just suppose to be friends he wasn't the one for me. Love is crazy; it can make you do some things you never knew you could do. In the end, it's suppose to make you stronger and better for when you do find MR. RIGHT you'll know what to do. The next time you see him, just ask him how he feels about you and take it from there. You don't want to chase after anyone that's only going to wanna hurt you or not say anything at all. Been there done that for seven years and got nowhere.
2007-08-06 23:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abcess over him. If it's meant to be, he'll come back into
your life. It's when you focus on someone and don't allow anyone else of interest to be friends with, that will get you every time.
When I met my husband, we noticed each other when he
entered a building and sat down across from my girlfriend and I at a table. He struck up a conversation with the two of
us. I thought he was the boy next door type. Later my GF
mentione we were waiting for her BF to show up. And my
husband to be shifted his weight and started talking more to
me rather than to the two of us. It was too obvious he was
looking to pick one of us up. LOL. Anyway, he ended up
asking me for a date. And a couple of days before we were
to have the date, his friend called to say my date couldn't
make it, and gave a very plausible excuse. But I didn't buy it.
And I accused my date of passing me off to someone else
because he'd lost interest. But he assured me that wasn't the
case, and he didn't mind filling in, so I wouldn't have to sit home. I delined and thought that was that.
A few days later, I was sitting with friends on a double date,
and in walked my future husband. Our eyes locked after he
scanned the room and smiled at me. My heart about leaped
through my mouth. I excused myself from my little group and
said I'd seen a friend and would be back in a minute. I approached the table where my 'almost date' had joined his
friends and spoke to him standing. I told him I'd gotten his
'message' but had declined his friends' offer. His friend turned
around and introduced himself as the phone caller. It was an
embarrassing moment but it all ended in laughter, with the
friends' personality turning the whole thing into a laugh fest.
And also told my husband to be, that he had better hang onto
this spirited girl who had alot of scruples. Well my husband to
be asked if I was busy right then, and I explained I was with
a blind date and a girlfriend and her date. But that I could
break it. I felt I didn't want to let him get away for some reason. I just felt that he was my soul mate, right then and
there. His smile literally lifted my heart.
We were together that evening, and all of the others to
follow. And we were engaged after one week, and we were
married the following week after knowing each other only two
weeks. Now two children and three grandchildren later, we
have been married almost 45 years. Now if you don't think
that is an achievement in life? He's been my best friend,
and my soulmate all these years. But sometimes we've had
some major upheaval and we've had to work at overcoming
strife, but that's to be expecected. Life never hands us roses.
Mostly lemons so it pays to know what to do with them, and
not toss them like sour apples.
Just enjoy yourself and your youth while you can. And you
will meet that right person meant only for you. If you don't see
that guy again, know it was for your betterment only. And you
will find someone even better when you aren't looking.
2007-08-07 00:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you see him again and have a chance to really get to know him. Depending on the people involved, getting to know someone could take a lifetime. However if you really know what you want in a husband or wife, then "getting to the I'm in love point" could take a relative short period of time. My husband and I met 25 years ago.... We both had been previously married. In short....we met, sat down to talk and would up talking for 3 days. Three weeks later we were married. Our 25th Anniversary is this coming January 28th. We are very committed and still very much in love. If it's meant to be..... it will be. And, it will last forever.
2007-08-06 23:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is strong. That's how i met my husband...I saw him at the club, told my best friend that he was the guy i was going to marry .... and the funny thing about that is he told his friend the same thing that night ... trust me if he feels the same way he'll defiantly remember you...Good Luck
2007-08-06 23:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by D N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you know nothing about? It's infatuation with the idea of what he might be. By the way, it's spelled sight.
2007-08-06 23:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. Making a connection is never "weird". Keep us informed!
2007-08-06 23:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by wendy e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋