I'm 23 with a college degree & my 17-yr. old foster step-niece got pregnant @ 16 but she tells me I shouldn't ever have kids.
2007-08-06 15:33:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You should tell her she needs to learn to keep her legs closed if she isn't going to be smart enough to use protection. And to be respectful of people that have accomplished something in their lives, like you.
2007-08-06 15:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by EmilyJune 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
She may be speaking form her own personal experience. Like saying man I wish I never got pregnant this is really hard. Maybe she thinks its that hard for everyone and is not thinking that if she has waited it would have been easier.
If that is not the case then NO she most certainly does not have any right to tell you what to do in your personal life.
No one other than the person you are planning on having children with has NO right to tell you that.
If you are planning to do go to sperm bank then NO ONE has the right to tell you that you shouldn't have kids.
2007-08-06 22:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you said to her to make her say that? It was probably said out of anger towards you and not intentionally meant. Teenagers say the meanest things at that age. They have many stressors in life and adding to it is pregnancy. I would take it with a grain of salt and love her just the same. You never know this might be her way of trying to get your attention as well.
2007-08-07 00:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think she might of told you that because having children its hard and her being so young its a life changing experience,
i always tell my friends that don't have kids to wait and get there careers and travel and when there ready then if they choose to and think that there are ready then you do what you have to do and plan your family
in my opinion its advise but people are gonna do what they want its there life anyway but
no one has the right to tell you not to have kids at all
2007-08-07 02:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by LEO GIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it matter how she told you. If she told you like a disgrace or said rudely you should never have kids. Then no she doesn't have the nerve. But she look at your figure and then said you should never have kids she probably worry that you might lose your cute figure if you have children. Or if she just plainly said you should never have kids she probably meant you couldn't handle one. Just ask her what she meant and then you evaluate yourself. But don't let that keep you from having kids, because they will turn out to be joy
2007-08-06 22:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is probably just telling this to you becasue she feels like she has ruined her life by having a child so young. There will be lots of people that give you advice, it doesn't mean that you have to take their advice.
2007-08-06 23:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't she allowed an opinion of her own!
You've put this 'out on the WWW' because your feelings are hurt..?? is that it!!
Well you certainly don't sound like the more mature person - college degree or not..!
2007-08-06 23:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by bundygal_m 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
She sounds like she's jealous that maybe you have the freedom without kids and she don't. Or maybe she's just being a b i t c h....
2007-08-06 22:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Melba 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE you should take her advice. She knows more about having kids than you do. You should be happy that she's trying to help you out.
2007-08-07 02:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Candy_Kisses 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe she has a reason 4 sayin this
2007-08-07 02:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by boo boo stank stank 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋