plzzzz help im not to young if you say kiss then how to approach it? i dont want to force it or scare her
2007-08-06 12:54:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like her and she likes me but like i said dont want to force or scare her or get dumped cuz she wasnt ready
2007-08-06 12:56:55 · update #1
Nothing... your 12!! You have your whole life ahead of you! Just enjoy being a kid for now!
2007-08-06 12:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by jhg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On ur 1st date u should just hold hands and give her a hug every once in a while. But don't kiss her unless u no that she wants 2 and u want 2. I'm a girl and I'm thirteen and I wouldn't kiss on the 1st date but ur not me. W/e u feel comfortable w/ is what u should do. Just go w/ the flow and everything will work out. But don't let her c that u r so nervous cuz that will make things weird even though im sure she's nervous 2. Good luck!
2007-08-14 19:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still kids. Enjoy this time. It flies by. Trust me. Hold her hand. Hug her. Give her a little kiss on the cheek every now and again. And just go with the flow. If not you'll cause a really uncomfortable situation for the both of you. Just go with the flow and do what you feel is right. If nothing else go ask an adult involved in your life.
2007-08-14 04:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ~<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much, she is just as worried about your date as you are..probably more!
Relax, have fun just being with each other. If the moment feels right, you could hold her hand for a little while, and maybe give her a hug goodbye. but, like you said, you don't want to scare her or make her feel pressured into doing anything that makes her uncomfortable.
Most of all, just have fun. Enjoy getting to know her and being with her. Lots of time for kisses on your 2nd, 3rd etc dates.
2007-08-06 20:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by rose_32008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12. Enjoy here companionship and worry about the other factors much later. Things develop when they do and rushing them is disrespectful of her. You would be surprised just how much more attractive you will be by behaving as a complete gentleman (open doors, etc). Don't even think about the rest until you get that part down.
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2007-08-14 19:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to hug and kiss her on first date show her you have respect for her that is good. I mean holding hands is fine. that is good to start sinceyou are 12. I had my first date at 4 years old we went to the city dumb with his mom and i held his hand was great. you see you dont' have too be dramtic. take care
2007-08-13 23:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be a gentlemen with her yes hold her hand hugs are ok dont know a person yet that dooesnt like a hug,open the door for her pull her chair out for her to sit down,just dont pull it out from under her lol,you will do fine .
2007-08-14 12:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go ride bikes or skateboards together your to young to be bf gf u should only b friend for the next 6 years.
2007-08-06 20:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa hes not to young ppl heck i no lots of kids his age
doin more than tht so i think he should hold hands and
hug till the second or third date......
im 17 and my first date was when i was 10
2007-08-14 19:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 12 and already going out on dates! Well since you already asked her out, I say just hold hands.
2007-08-14 11:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by words777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study, do you put as much energy into your schoolwork that you do worrying about getting a kiss which you have plenty of time to get kissed why do you have to the first date sounds like you are to much in a hurry to grow up.
2007-08-14 19:40:33 · answer #11 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋