just wondering if anyone has felt this way... ok so I had a bad break up with my girl of 2.5 years. its been 9 months since the break, she has a boyfriend, and im pretty much just hooking up with a few girls regularly and quite a few different girls randomly (no disrespect ladies) I took the break up really hard but got over the worst of it in about 3 months. now that i've been dating these other girls i am completely over M*r*s*a but now im kind of confused and sad because i dont miss her anymore or love her or for that matter care for her. she even kind of wants to get back and I dont want to. is this normal, good, bad, a** hole-ish? should I have waited longer before hooking up with all these other girls for in case our love could have been saved? i would really like to hear what you ladies think (oh by the way, she cheated on me not the other way around. Im not a player when Im committed. outside commitment might be a different story depending on your prefrence lol) Thanks for the help!!.
2007-08-06 11:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by wherez_it_at_smokey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with you feeling nothing for her now....
move on my boy and spread your love with all the ladies
gl
2007-08-06 11:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When s*x is involved, then feelings get messed up and it's harder to tell what you really feel. Your emotions are in a jumble because you've been off playing the field and sleeping with other women. Had you been a little more serious and forthright in your dating efforts, you might be able to tell if your heart wants to be with this girl or not, whether or not she cheated or whatever might have happened. Keep in mind, you will not be able to be the playboy for the rest of your life. At some point, you will need to settle down with one faithful woman. Do you want it to be her? That's what you need to decide. The cows only give the milk for so long before commitment is necessary! Decide who you want to give your commitment to -- your ex, or someone you have yet to meet.
2007-08-06 18:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that the grass is greener on your side of the fence and she's having regrets. Don't fall for it. A cheater and a liar is ALWAYS a cheater and a liar, and whatever relationship you had with her was one sided because she was never there.
As long as you are honest with women, we don't care if you "hook" up with as many as you can handle. Its when you lie about your intentions or make promises that you don't intend to keep that women get cranky. Have fun and be safe, and when the one who is waiting for you to come into her life comes into yours, then you will be able to appreciate someone with some self respect.
2007-08-06 18:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing getting away from here. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-08-06 18:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tom B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"loves not a grave, it won't decay on you"
if you don't "love" her anymore, then you never really did.
It's not assholish at all for you to not like her like that anymore.
and if she's cheated on you and has told you she
wants to get back together with you while she has a boyfriend
then she wouldn't be a good girlfriend anyway.
2007-08-06 18:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think It's GREAT!...You've just outgrown her...be thankful for the experience...And that you've learned the best lession ...."How to move on!"...It's so hard for some....Best of luck in finding a loyal dreamgirl..It can happen!
2007-08-06 18:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know how to answer it ,
i mean if yer happy then dont change anything .
i think you should just talk to her about it .
2007-08-06 18:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋