im not sure how i feel about my boyfriend anymore, its like i dont feel the way i used to about him. but im so confused about the way i feel towards him at the moment what should i do?
2007-08-06 11:09:39 · 7 answers · asked by hannah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best thing to do is take some alone time, gather your thoughts and figure out what you want...don't let him come around for a few days and see how you feel....
2007-08-06 11:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would have helped to know how long you have been dating and also your respective ages.However, if you are absolutely positive that your romantic feelings for your boyfriend no longer exists,then you need to tell him without delay.While you did not explain why you say you are confused about him, you are sure you no longer want to be with him.That sounds pretty definitive to me.Sit him down and very nicely let him know how things now stand.Tell him how sorry you are for hurting him and that with time you hope he will forgive you and remain your platonic friend.Good luck.
2007-08-08 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time to back off a little, you don't have to break up...Just take time to figure out if he is who you want to be with...
We all get confused about feeling towards someone, sometimes it just takes looking at the relationship from outside to see if what we feel inside is right or wrong....
2007-08-06 18:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o gosh- i have been through this honey, and you know what-
talk to him!!
talk about how you both feel... if you feel youve gotten closer or if youve drifted-
i didnt realy feel anything in the beginning and then eventually did- my bf sensed that something was wrong and then i felt confused and bad also and i didnt know whether to stick with him or get out of it.
the best thing to do is talk it through because that way, you will both know how the other is feeling and that talk will either be the make or break of the relationship-
its hard to speak your mind in a relationship sometimes,
but at times, it has to be done-
good luck hun,
hope i helped,
x-
2007-08-06 18:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by opinionated chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way and if you guys feel you can work through it, and if you dont think that you can ask him in person or he wont tell u the truth you could send him an anonymous message using http://hikkup.com and just find out, I wish you the best of luck
2007-08-06 18:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by stacyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. Maybe write your feelings down on paper first to sort them all out.
2007-08-06 18:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U BOTH SHOULD GET TOGETHER AND TALK TELL HIM WHATS NEW BUT REALLY FOCUS
2007-08-06 18:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by poop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋