I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity about it. As I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him what the fascination was and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. I'm thinking if I can limit it to a few minutes around the time we go to bed, we could have fun with it. Was I wrong to do this? How should I handle this?
2007-08-06 10:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Administrative and Office Support
It's maybe a little bit kinky, but definitely not wrong. As long as it doesn't really bother you, don't worry about it. After all, nobody else has to know, if that's your concern.
If you and he end up having some fun with it, so much the better. There's nothing wrong with it.
2007-08-06 12:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm, I think if i were in your situation i'd be worried. you seem pretty understanding about the whole thing. He seems pretty intens on the thought of wearing them....no doubt, he probably did it when you weren't around before your inital go ahead. No that it's out in the open he feels more comfortable about it to ask you more frequently. You would NEVER EVER, ever catch my man wearing panyhose, I feel he could quite possibly be a cross-dresser or bi in some sense. does he have other "femine" qualities? if this relization doesn't bother you then do nothing....
2007-08-08 14:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by sa-da-tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 15th time you've posted this question...so far. I've answered one of them already, unaware that there were (going to be) 14 more identical questions from you. I agree with the person above who said to just ask your husband what the deal is. Otherwise, see my answer in one of the 14 other places you asked this question.
BTW, what does this question have to do with Business & Finance/Administrative and Office Support?
2007-08-06 18:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are a couple, you should be accepting of one another's fantasies. I do not see how you need "handle" it. Be accepting of your husband and if he wants to wear your pantyhose let him. Maybe even surprise him one day by buying him a pair of his own. You are married and should be able to be open to new ideas in (and out) of the bedroom. This does not make him a crossdresser...it is just something that turns him on. It really isn't that big of a deal.
2007-08-06 18:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by moocuddle76 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think Heather and globar are right. Sounds like he may be looking for a way to tell you something.
2007-08-06 18:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by ROBBY R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move the question to the relationships area!
2007-08-08 07:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Subic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep asking the same question? Are you maybe the hubby???????
2007-08-07 00:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
care to stop asking this? how many different answers do you think you'll get?
he's either a cross-dresser, or he needs help. pick one, and ask about something else.
2007-08-06 17:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Heather......and for God's sake why don't you ask your hubby?
2007-08-06 18:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋