So...I'm a teenager, I would say I have a pretty nice face (not like OMG GORGEOUS, but definitely not ugly). I'm slender, 110 pounds and im 5'3''. I do have some curves, and I do dance regularly so I have a toned body. The only thing is, I barely fill out an A cup...
Basically, I have a nice face, a pretty nice overall shape, and an outgoing personality but no boobs...
I just want to know how much it matters to guys. I'm going into highschool next year and I want to start dating, but I'm scared nobody will like me because of it...
Guys? Advice?
2007-08-06 10:36:17 · 20 answers · asked by ellybelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah...and I don't think I'm gonna grow much more either...
I got my lady thing three years ago, and apparently (according to the dr) you stop developing about two years after that...
2007-08-06 10:53:32 · update #1
It depends on the guy. Personally I think bigger is not necessarily better. Those are way down on the list somewhere after is she smart? Is she personable? Does she have a good sense of humor? Is she interesting? Is she cute? a good kisser? etc, etc. In the end looks are all an illusion that fades away and all we are left with is what we are on the inside. I guess what I'm trying to say is find someone who likes you for who you are (who you really are) and sees you as a person not an object.
2007-08-06 10:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*I'm the same size.........and I'm 21.* It sucks.
.I think that society has drilled that barbie doll perfection image and Betty Homemaker image into our heads for women.
.Anyways I know it may or may not be an option for you, but as for myself I am planning on getting breast implants within the next 2 years or so. I guess some might say I've fallen for the hype or I am "following" in some way...but I honestly cannot stand my image, and like you I have a cute face...I'm not like drop dead gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I'm about 5'1-5'2 and I could stand to lose about 20lbs. but I've gotten to the point to where until I have some boobs I am just not satisfied with myself. I think I would have a lot more self confidence...and some might find that hard to believe...but I know myself, and that's what I want...I've thought about it for years. So it's not just a quick split decision I made this morning or something.
.Anyways...I'm not saying just b/c you have small boobs to run out and get implants, so don't get the wrong idea, I was just simply explaining my own personal thoughts.
.Remember also that your boobs could still be growing, so they may not be big now...but they might be in a couple years or so.
.Victoria's secret has bras for all shapes and sizes, and if you go in there, they will fit you for the bra that suites your needs.
.So just give yourself some time, and think about your future options...as for now just go down to Victoria's secret and get yourself fitted for a bra or two. I mean seriously who knows, you might "bust" out in a few years, some girls have that happen almost like guys have their growth spurts. I wasn't so lucky though, which is why I'm seriously considering implants.
.Anyways I hope you figure something out***
2007-08-06 17:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It matters but really it is not even close to the most important thing. Ive never heard of a guy not dating a girl because she didnt have big boobs. And they are nice but they really dont matter that much to me.
2007-08-06 17:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? No. Not really. I've met some heavily endowed women that couldn't hold a conversation. That pisses me off more. I'd walk away. Chances are, that's the best they are. Nothing else. Nothing in the mental department. Nothing in the kissing department. Nothing in the bedroom. For me, a little left to the imagination really gets me intrigued.
2007-08-06 17:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no boobs dont matter that much, not to me anyways, i hate when girls go out and get boob jobs. to all girls out there, boobs dont matter! sure most guys would like a girl to have big ones, but thats not the first thing that pops into our head. and your not in high school yet, so your still maturing theres plenty of time to develop. im sure there will be plenty of guys that will like you for you. its like girls want muscular guys, but do yall want one of those odd looking huge body builders that look like steroid users? i think most girls would rather have a "cut" well toned guy right? so its not like every guy is lookin for double d girls. its somwhere in between small and large that most guys prefer. dont worry bout your boobs, you'll be fine, besides a sweet personality is all you need :)
only shallow guys wouldnt date a girl because of her boob size.
2007-08-06 17:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't like you because your rack doesn't measure up, then the guy isn't worth it. Have enough self-respect and dignity to date a guy who cares about your personality, not your looks. Believe me, the ones who are worthy are the ones who don't care if you're an A cup or a triple D.
2007-08-06 17:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, You have other plus points that will attract guys. Plus there are girls who have huge boobs but don't have a nice face, nice shape and nice personality like yours.
2007-08-06 17:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by ------ -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been told bout a study done where they surveyed random guys and they found out that the guys that went to college likes girls with smaller breasts, and the un educated male liked girls with big breasts. so i personally want just a hand full any way but your prolly better off with a guys that is smarter.
2007-08-06 17:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by SAM S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax
2007-08-06 17:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters to me because I love boobs. But I know a whole bunch of guys who could care less.
2007-08-06 17:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by K F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋