have personal problems, but I regret doing that as the problem is not that big,I could have kissed a girl and now I've blown it, what if I dont get another chance?I worry too much that's my problem!What if this keeps on happening like I get close to french kissing with a girl and then something happens to stop me from doing it,?it's happened before!I should have gone out with her then I could have gotten it out the way and grown as a person!
2007-08-06 10:20:27 · 19 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone is nervous about their first kiss. remember that the girl you kiss will be nervous too. just close your eyes and go for it, enjoy
2007-08-06 10:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
French kissing will not make you grow as a person. You are worrying over nothing. You really need to concentrate on just having a good time for now and not worrying about kissing. Kissing is something you do when you are ready and you do it with someone you really like. I've been French kissed by guys who thought that's what I wanted...well, it wasn't what I wanted!!!! You will know when the time comes to kiss or French kiss a girl. Get out there, have a good time, and don't do anything until you are good and ready!!
2007-08-14 10:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
French kissing is not the road to growing as a person! The fact that you recognise you are NOT ready for this sort of behaviour is a sign you are growing! Learning to recognise being ready and not being ready is a very adult thing! stop knocking yourself about! Give it time you are young there will be 1000's of girls in your life and only about 30 of them you will want to be romantic with...of those 30 you may actually feel like snogging half of them and shagging all the rest....of those 15 you snog about 10 of them will want normal romantic kissing and the last 5 will want throat cleaning French kissing and tonsil cleaning!! so stop worrying!!
2007-08-06 10:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Confuzzled 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blimey! You were asked out by a girl and turned her down!!!! Please don't do this - she so obviously liked you and anyway, why are you making such a mountain out of kissing? If it's a first date, you don't have to kiss, and anyway, if you do it just comes naturally when you are both ready. Practice is all you need and you are never going to be even reasonably good if you don't give it a try. Stop analysing this kissing nonsense and enjoy having a girlfriend. If kissing her happens then just enjoy it and feel good about yourselves.
2007-08-06 10:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awhile ago there used to be someone that I liked. I never did end up telling her. I would see her and think maybe today's the day that I should tell him how I feel. But then I'd somehow let the moment pass and I would tell myself, "maybe next time. Definitely next time." That went on for a many, many next times and till this day she still doesn't know how I felt. Thinking back, what could've been was maybe one short brush with destiny or maybe she could have been the one who I handed the rest of my life over to. I guess that will remain another mystery lost in time. It's funny sometimes, when life presents you with an opportunity and then you deliberately close that window on your own. I guess there's a part of me that believed I was in control of my own fate, that I didn't need chance encounters to tell her what I wanted to say. That if I only wanted, I would be able to find her and tell her exactly what I wanted.
But sometimes, when you miss that boat your whole life hangs in the balance. The next time you have that chance to say or do whatever it is that you've been wanting, don't let anyone or yourself talk you into "a next time." Truth is, next times are never guaranteed. And that's how people end up with regrets. When they don't say or do what they've been wanting when the chance presents itself to them. It's forgivable if you procrastinate at work and at school. But you cannot procrastinate with life and with love. Life is constantly moving, and love never really waits for anyone to play catch up either.
2007-08-14 03:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by wigberto.serpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM how old r you? lol im playing. I go through that everyday. Im a girl so 1 thing i can say is that most of us like a good kiss but depending on her experience she wouldnt know a good kiss from a bad one and honestly everyone comes into a relationship with a little bit of baggage. if u care for someone though, you would explain 2 them. that would test how much they care for you
2007-08-14 02:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by perfecting inperfection 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd start off with a kiss on the lips and see how it goes. By the way, if a girl goes out with you that means she's interested in you so just relax and feel comfortable with yourself. Forget about any previous mistakes. Best of luck!
2007-08-14 01:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, YOU DIDN"T BLOW IT!!!!
you were caught unexpectedly.... its okay.... its alright.... it happens sometimes.
my advice to you is ~ ~ ~ ~
find her and take her to the side and ask to speak with her briefly -
say something in the ballfield of :
"..Hi (girl's name)... you asked me out & i turned you down. I in no way wanted to really turn you down, it was that i was so nervous, my nerves got the best of me. I am sorry for doing that. If it is at all possible, maybe we could start over, and maybe it is my turn to say to you ~ will you go out with me eventhough i got nervous and turned you down. I would really like a second chance with you..."
romeo ~ the rest is up to you..... take it away GL, lol
2007-08-14 07:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by foxxy*red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont be silly
Thing like that just happen naturally u cant plan it n practice it will happen n b braw...then ul b relieved
If u really like her u shud ask her out...n things il happen naturally..
n when u do kiss sum1 itl depend on there movements anyway that why natural
2007-08-13 07:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by spinklet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey slow down
you need to breathe for five and then exhale for five until calm
french kissing will happen without planning it
no worries
sort your self out first
there is plenty of time
2007-08-12 06:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋