For whatever reason, and it's been a while, I can't seem to control myself anymore. I always seem to wake up to and fall asleep to a bad/hostile mood, I'm angry or at least anxious/depressed about everything, and I'm pretty much anti-social. I feel like I lost control and meaning over my life, and that I've done it all. I feel ultra-jaded, and no matter what I do, take medication, exercize, go shopping, succeed in life, nothing at all seems to make a difference for me.
A's in school did nothing. Money does nothing. Sex does nothing (well temporarily it feels good), but I mean I can't seem to get meaning or pleasure from anything, and I just don't really care about anything or anyone anymore.
It's dangerous because I don't care about myself, and I don't care about others.
I don't know if I have depression because I don't feel gloomy or have low self esteem. My problem is more,...negative thought patterns which take over my whole being, and anger, and hate towards others.
2007-08-06 10:18:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've gone through alot in life, maybe that's why. Met lots of bad people, had lots of bad experiences, and all in all, it took its toll on me, and I generally just don't seem to like living anymore, since it's more BS than good times.
Traffic, annnoying people, problems, drama, and our political/environmental/economic environment sucks, and makes me not want to do it anymore.
I just want to sit at home and do nothing, and waste away, but even that is obviously depressing sounding.
What do I do?
2007-08-06 10:20:16 · update #1
Sweet heart you desperately need to go to psychiatrist...
There is hope in life and you can have it too...
Please don't give into your negative feelings.
Low self esteem is not necessarily a part of depression and people respond to depression differently person to person.
but please do get a referral to a mental health care professional. Life can be better.
2007-08-06 10:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-16 08:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative thought patterns and loss of interest in life are just as diagnostic of depression as being gloomy. You need to talk to a doctor and get some help. You may have depression and an anxiety disorder with it. It's pretty easy to treat now. Don't wait. The sooner you get treated, the better your life will be.
2007-08-06 10:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by mommanuke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a psychiatrist... maybe you're bipolar.. i know it's a term thrown around a lot, but i was in a similar situation not too long ago, but for 6 wks. now i've been on a medication, that has helped SIGNIFICANTLY!
seriouly, seek out the right professional help, and hopefully things will get better soon.
good luck!
2007-08-06 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by who cares! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meds alone will not "cure" these feelings. you need a therapist as well. try both together and see if it helps but remember, you didn't start to feel this way over night, so don't expect to feel better over night either. it's going to take time. if you have patience and a good doc, you'll learn a new way to look at things and find out why you're so hostile towards everything. peace.
2007-08-06 10:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out and find what really makes you happy. By most chance it will be a person, find someone zany and colorful to put joy back in your life, even if it is just with the little things that they do. I am always here to talk.
2007-08-06 10:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Deleted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeking. Let what is be just as it is.
2007-08-06 10:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read the book, "the secret".. you can get in anywhere...
you have to be open to change, its not anywhere near religous... if you want to be positive again, read this book.
2007-08-06 10:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a counselor, and take meds.
2007-08-06 10:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uuuuuuuuuuu talk to a docter?
2007-08-06 10:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Silrain Pink 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋