My bf and I were at a bar hanging out w/ our friends. At the end of the night he walked me to my car and was going to grab something to eat with his friend before coming over to my place, as he was kissing me, his ex drove by and goes "get a room" in a really friendly voice and was smiling (she still wants him but she's nice to me and we say hello occasionally.) When I got home, my bf calls me n asked me to pick him up and then goes "I freaking love you, i hate stupid girls." I knew he was drunk so ignored it, the next day his friend told him that he was making out with his ex in the restroom, my bf felt really bad and told me about it, but says he doesn't remember, he just remembers his ex asking if he still had feelings for her and he said "i don't feel $h^t" and she slapped him. I know this is the entire truth because i spoke to his ex, him and his friend....but i don't know if i should give him another chance or not, i'm just upset it even happened. what do you all think??
2007-08-06 10:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by TheBeautifulMess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the loser. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Alcohol's never an excuse.
2007-08-06 10:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by generasian2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TexXxas,
Well let me start off by letting everyone know that read this. “You are so beautiful and how good it would have someone like you right beside them”.
Beside that here is my opinion on your question. Don’t trust any dude around there ex for many reason. No matter how nice is she to you just think about that at once it was her and you have it now. If your boy friend wants to say that he doesn’t remember and that he was drunk. Well tell him “don’t give a ****” a.k.a frank said if you can handle your drink then you might want to stick with Boone’s. Sexy mama you can have all three right in front of you and you can bet on that, that they will sit there and lie right in front of you with a smile. Number it’s his friend and his ex remember that.
Now should you give him another chance? Well that is were how much love you do you have for him and also say you do. Just make sure you have your guard up because he could always say he was drunk. Hope I could of brought a little smile to your face. Take care and please you can ask me more.
2007-08-06 11:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by frank m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, I wouldn't give him another chance. I have always been a strong believer in the fact that whether you are drunk or not, cheating is cheating. If he can remember talking with her about feelings and such, then why wouldn't he remember making out with her. Also, do you think that maybe he is using this as just a cover up story bc maybe he really knew that he was making out with her and he was just seeing if he did really have feelings for her still. Why else would he call you to say "I freaking love you"? Sounds to me like he wanted to have that one up on you to try and get you to not think about what really had just happened. Leave him!!!
2007-08-06 11:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by lildro0420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has a drinking problem if he cant remember doing that. He isnt helping you feel secure with your relationship, and you have to worry about him cheating on you when he drinks..? I would get rid of him... or at least give him the option to stop drinking so much or else.. Another thing, exes are not good for a relationship. You need to tell this biotch to back off!
2007-08-06 10:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take a break from your BF. Tell him that you need to sort things out in your head because you were really hurt by what happened.
It will make him realize that he needs to be more careful when he gets drunk and that he needs to stay away from his ex.
Tell her that you would appreciate it if she left him alone & stayed out of your lives. That he wants nothing to do w/ her.
2007-08-06 10:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Niko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are way to young to be dwelling on a bf who cheats on you. Life is full of jerks who cheat but if your willing to find a man who is committed to you, it will take time and effort on your part. Men or boys in this case have no idea what a commitment is if they are sneeking into bathrooms to make out. Put yourself in her shoes would you belittle yourself and make out in a bathroom....hello where is the integrity?? the morals of this alleycat?? If this is a lesson in life for you sweet one, give yourself a chance to grow up and find a man worthy of your time.
2007-08-06 10:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Smile S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! If he is apparently kissing his ex, and she is always there, you will have to deal with this the rest of your relationship! He sounds like a good guy but you have to watch your heart before before you can rely on him to give you his.
2007-08-06 10:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bird Questions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those 2 deserve each other, and you deserve a better bf
2007-08-06 10:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by dickdamick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like distancing yourself from all the drama would do you good.
2007-08-06 10:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect her to do, leave the country?
2007-08-06 10:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋