Im crazy abt this guy but he has a gf!! He knows how i feel abt him and we have kissed a few times!!
I refused to kiss him for months because he has a gf but I just couldn't resist his advances any more and gave into him!!
Now I feel awful abt it and dont know what to do!
2007-08-06 10:00:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh i know it was wrong but my feelings for him are so strong that I just couldn't help it!! I know this is no excuse!
2007-08-06 10:06:26 · update #1
Quit kissing other girls boyfriends! How would you like it if someone kissed your boyfriend?
2007-08-06 10:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sarah K ♥ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already made up your mind, you don't need anyone on here to tell you what to do.
If you love him (or at least have the strong feelings for him that you do) then you won't be able to resist from trying to be with him... you've already demonstrated that by kissing him.
The BEST thing to do in your situation is ask him to tell his girlfriend what's going on. Sit him down and ask him if he's serious about you or if he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
If he tells you he can't lose his girlfriend, GET OUT. Trust me, I've been in the same situation, and he'll almost certainly just end up getting rid of you, the girlfriend will find out, and you will regret and feel disgusting about yourself for a long time.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do.. if you ever need to talk about it, IM me!
2007-08-06 17:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by étiénne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. In matters of the heart, we do stupid things. You did a stupid thing. You have to realize that he is getting ready to play both of you. Is that what you really think of yourself? This is what I want you to say to him the next time you talk:
I wanted to know how you felt about an idea I been having. I know you have a girlfriend. What if we just continued kissing and have sex. I won't tell her if you don't. You can have us both.
If he feels anything for you or for his GF he will not accept and then you can ask him to make a choice. If he says "cool" then you know that he has no respect or true feelings for you and you can move on. Good luck.
2007-08-06 17:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by cuddleyleo2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats His Fault He Shouldnt Have If He Already Has a Gf He Obviously Not 100% Happy With Her,Not All Your Fault Babex
2007-08-06 17:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by SM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about what you would want someone to do if it were your boyfriend. Why would you want to be with a guy who would kiss someone else when they have a girlfriend? Don't be that girl. You should put some distance between you guys, do the right thing.
2007-08-06 17:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you know that you wouldnt want this to happen to you ...right? Also if you two hooked up do you think you could trust him around other girls? I would just tell him that you feel uncomfortable about what happened and find someone that you can be crazy over who can also be faithful.!!!! You dont want to be that other woman.......
2007-08-06 17:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sales Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have someone tape the two of you kissing then give a copy to his girlfriend who needs to know her guy is a sacless ho who can't keep his word to be faithful. then the next time a guy doesnt take the hint slam your foot on his then kick his balls.
Oh, and apologize to the girl and explain the whole thing to her and that you only did it this time so she could know she needs someone who can be a man.
2007-08-06 17:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy is making out with you and has a girlfriend. Hello?! Does that say "boyfriend material" to you??
He's a player and will do the same to you if you two got together. Leave him alone. Stop talking to him. Stop seeing him. Stop emailing him. Stop texting. Stop taking his calls.
2007-08-06 17:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what the hell's wrong with u!!! u wouldnt want no other woman be kissin your man. find yourself a man and stop associating with the bastard. your only making your self vulnerable to him and he knows it, thats why he is playing with you. if he did crazy about you as much as you crazy about him he would have left his girlfriend a long time ago. your only wasting your time being obsess over him
2007-08-06 17:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted you he would leave his girlfriend for you. But it doesnt seem that way because he is still with her. Just leave him alone and if he wants to come after you then tell him if he wants to be with you to make a decision between you and her. I know its going to hurt you because you like him alot but you have to or else hes going to keep hurting you.
2007-08-06 17:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by La Muñeca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could preach to you about how wrong this is but you already feel bad - here is what you need to think about - if he will do this to his gf he will do this to you too. why would you want a guy that you already know is a cheater and liar (to his current gf) he is using you both and you deserve better...
2007-08-06 17:04:29 · answer #11 · answered by brandi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋