people, especially women, tell me i'm very pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous. i'm brunette. everytime i hang out with my blonde bff, every guy just stare at her. they look at me briefly and then look back at her or look away. i love my bff, but she wears a lot of make-up, a lot of rings, necklances, and rock clothes. although she looks "hot," she doesn't have a pretty face when you really look at her.
when i was at a grocery store, guys kept staring at this blonde woman. i took a look at her. she was not pretty and chubby. do women and guys have different perceptions of beauty? do guys find blondes the most beautiful women?
2007-08-06 07:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by urox555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok here goes nothing- I myself am attracted to blonde women. Just three days ago my soon to be ex-wife and I were at dinner together when I turned my head to check out this blonde girl that was leaving. I ignored my wife- didn't even hear her speaking- and just gawked at this girl who my wife described as trashy looking. She then proceeded to kick me under the table. Was she trashy looking? I didn't think so. My wife said to me that whenever I see a blonde with wild hair- whether her face is pretty or not- I'm thinking one thing. I guess she's right. I think alot of guys tend to look at blondes cause they look hot. A blonde that wears lots of eye-liner and leather rock clothes would definetly get my attention - until I see her face. I'm 40 and when I'm out with my 40 year old friends and a blonde in rock clothes walks by- my friends and I are all thinking & saying "wonder what she is like in bed". I'm not usually attracted to brunettes- but if I saw one as you descirbed up above- well then she would get my attention too. It also may come down to dressing too. For example- last week my friend and I wear at this happy-hour-type-deck-bar......lots of guys/girls in shorts drinking Corona & mixed drinks- there was this one hot-looking I want to say Puerto-Rican/Italian/girl with long dark hair, lots of eye-makeup, tight black pants.....she was the hottest looking girl in the place- and I think she knew it......every guy tripped when they saw her. So I don't think it has to be just the blonde slutty ones that guys go for- if the girl looks hot- and has that look- then you'll be noticed.
2007-08-06 07:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have different perceptions to women about everything not just beauty. They are on a different planet most of the time. Blondes are a stereotype all guys grow up dreaming about. When they grow up a lot of them realise it and prefer brunettes or any colour, thats not to say they wont turn and look if a blonde passes by they just cant help it its a sort of instinct. So I wouldn't worry when you get your man you will be the most beautiful in his eyes, even if he does turn his head at a blonde passing by.
2007-08-06 07:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
Looks aren't everything... To me, beauty is inside and out. I think 85% of the women I see are physically attractive. It's the personality that makes or breaks the deal.
2007-08-06 07:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I can remember it was said that the hottest girl is blond and has blue eyes etc etc. Guys grow up thinking this I don't know why. Once most men take the time to sit and chat with a girl that is not Blondie they realize that looks is not everything and that they grew up believing a cliche. I am not dissing blonde's at all, just giving my opinion
2007-08-06 07:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the whole package and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It just depends on the person. Beauty comes within if you have a beautiful personality it radiates out of you if you have a shitty personality it also radiates out of you. You could be the most beautiful person in the world on the outside and look like the most ugliest person at the same time because of your personality. Love yourself and stop worrying about what everyone else looks like work on the within and it will all come together.
2007-08-06 07:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by freckleface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't find blondes the most beautiful. My gf is brunette and is prettier than any blonde I've met =)
But I suppose that beauty is different for different genders...
However, hair color doesn't say what kind of gf/wife they'll be.
2007-08-06 07:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guy look at blondes as easy, brunettes on the other hand are hotter and more level headed. most blondes are true blondes and are just trying to get all the attention anyways. stay true to you real color and life will be just as fun for you i think a brunettes are hotter anyday
2007-08-06 07:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brunette, blonde's, red heads, sprayed on hair color, all I see is the women who gets my attention ! I guess the term *dumb blonde's* gets more attention and you hear more jokes about them than you do with other woman.don't know why that is
2007-08-06 07:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Maindrian Pace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you on this one Blonde chicks are beautifull Brunette is also beautifull there is no different it just a person who make herself beautifull by adjusting her hair and make up.it depends on how you match with your clothes and make up.
2007-08-06 07:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by lszondi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are:
Most guys like girls that are curvy and have a shape.
Most girls like themselves to be ulta skinny and have a shape like a 13 year old boy.
2007-08-06 07:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Julie H 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋