I need some good advice, about my brother and his crazy ex-girlfriend?

Question

My bro is 17, and is moving to college in less than a month, hes been dating this girl kayla for about 3 years, but they broke up about 5 times, it was barely even a relationship really. All they did was have little fighs, and she wouldn't let him do anything like join sports teams and if he had a friend over, she would get mad and want to be there too, but she denys all of it and says she doesn't do anything. shes i completely physcotic, she hit me 5 times in the past (which is illegal since shes 18 and i'm 15), and she lied and cried to get out of it. she was playing my piano, and i asked her to stop because she was a btich to me that day, and she didn't so i went over and i was going to close it, and she hit me as hard a she could, and i hit her back (first time) and she started crying and she said i grabbed her hands and hit her before she did anything, and she threatened me, and tried to make my brother hate me. theres more in the details.

she hit me about 4 times before that, once she stole my seat and i asked her to get off of it, and she said no and was acting stupid so i lifted up the chair and she hit me, and she started crying and i didn't even touch her, and she lied to my parents and everything. another time she hit me in the car, but convinced me not to tell my mom and dad. her nad my brother are convinced theres nothing wrong with her, but everyone talks behind there backs, his friends just come up to me and talk about her. she had slept with other guys before, and he still took her back and she said she'd change. he broke up with her again a couple weeks ago and was threatening to hurt herself, my brother started going out with another girl, and kayla is trying to get him back, and i'm pretty sure she will. i feel so bad for his other girlfriend, because she did nothing wrong. she will sit on the floor if she doesn't get the best seat if were playing xbox even too. and shes not even hot, at all. any advice?

oh and i forget to say that my mom and dad gave her 100 dollars for grad, and 50 for her birthday without a thank you, and we've taken her on trips and to restaurants and we've always payed, and she even sleeps in until 11 when she stays over here and never offers to help.

Answer 1

What a jerk! Tell your parents, and threaten to call the police. Then they will know how serious you are. If they STILL don't believe you, call the police. She is physically abusing you.

Answer 2

Whenever you see her, dont say anything to her unless its necessary. just stay polite, dont make small talk with her, lock your bedroom door. Wheres the piano if its in a public place let her play just walk out of the room. She just wants your attention anyway, Stay away and youll be okay

Answer 3

sorry but it's your parents' faults if they are being sucked in by a teenaged girl.

and if your brother likes to be treated like crap by his girlfriend, i suppose there is nothing you can do to change that, either.

if she ever hits you again, give her a good slug, she deserves it! i don't condone hitting, but she's asked for it for too long... she's tormenting and teasing you.

i suppose you are learning all sorts of lessons about how not to act from your family! take care.. hugs

Answer 4

Make her life miserable, do what she does to you, tell your parents how she really is and try to convince your brother that she is not worth it. Become friends with your brothers new girlfriend, I'm pretty sure this will make her mad.

Answer 5

what advice do you want? he's 18 and will probably find someone else in college. I don't really see that there's much to worry about. If she winds you up again then ignore her, and certainly don't hit her again.