Should I feel jealous if my girlfriend is meeting up with a guy for a drink?

Question

Even after she told me that he admits that he fancies her...and had a one night stand before we got together?

I'm not the jealous type but i saw on her profile that she is meeting up with a guy for a drink after work and she aint told me...how do I take that?

Answer 1

first of all.
if she had been upfront you would have been fine with it, right?
but the fact that she's done it behind your back isnt a good thing.
It may be that she's scared of your reaction. i've done things behind my boyfriends back before because he is the jealous type and i've been quite scared of his reaction.
In the end it comes down to the fact that i should have consulted him about before i did it.

but don't do what my bf did and get all mad.

just mention that you've noticed the comment on her profile and that your not annoyed but just think she should have told you.
obv your a lil dissapointed so put that accross.
it will sink in more if she calm and disappointed than if you go round shouting the odds.

hope this helps.
xx

Answer 2

What? She is meeting up with a guy that 1) has the hots for her 2) she has had a one night stand with and 3) she hasn't told you about it? This seems a little bit much but who knows. As a female I know how we are. What may look fishy to some could be completely innocent to us. I might ask her nonchalantly about it. Don't make it seem like you're prying. If it's no big deal she shouldn't have a problem telling you anything.

Answer 3

bring it to her attention

most girls will either deny it or play it off that it was such a innocent thing

it cool to feel confident but it s obviously bothering u thats why u ask her
most girls will tell u r overreacting but girls are there own worst enemies
let u go out and meet someone for drinks she will flip

plus i sense that u dont trust her
and its probably because she s giving this vibe

i say if u cant trust then just break up because its not worth being stress over someone u dont trust

Answer 4

if shes meeting him in broad daylight youre ok. anytime past 4:30 - 5:30 id start gettin jealous

Answer 5

I think you are being the 'nice guy' and being taken advantage of. For a girl to say this to her boyfriend, I am positive it is that she is looking for something more from your relationship and that this guy is giving it to her, whether it be sexual or emotional. Sure, it was nice and honest of her to tell you this was going to happen, but honestly, I wouldn't trust it one bit. They have a history, plain and simple! End of Story!

Answer 6

Why would she want to meet up with a guy when she is with you.
Ask her if you could come along too with a girl, how would she feel if you made it a foursome?
Unless it's her relative then I'd say she's playing games with you.

Answer 7

Well she looks guilty! If this is nothing more than freinds then why arent you invited and why is this secrective? Worse case find out where she is going and show up by chance with your freinds.....see what happens then!

Answer 8

if she wanted to meet up with him as friends, she could have asked you along too. she didn't and whats worse is that she kept it from you. however, if you have been checking her profile, you don't sound as if you trust her - she may realise this may have felt she needed to hide it from you...

Answer 9

If she was upfront and told u before hand i would say it was fine.But the fact that she hasn't told you seems like she is hiding something.I'd talk to her about it.

Answer 10

just ask her about it, if she starts trying to defend herself and has a go at you for being jealouse then there is something going on and if i were you id get rid of her.