I have caught my man looking at other girls on the internet 3 or 4 times now. Sometimes it's celebrities and sometimes just regular people. He thinks I'm stupid for getting mad about it but I feel like if I was good enough for him he wouldnt want to do that. I'm not big or anything but i did have a baby almost a year ago and I still have stretch marks and a little baby fat left. Should I get so upset about his boob obsession?
2007-08-06 05:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its useless to get mad about it
sit and look at it with him
don't give negative opinions and it will turn him on
2007-08-06 05:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which question do I answer first? i'm going to start on the right & artwork my way down. No, i'm not that insecure 2 difficulty approximately women folk on the television. by no potential tried, guess i've got lead a sheltered existence. An R action picture? Is that an X-rated Porn bash element? No, we don't watch Porn. Why watch what we are in a position to do plenty extra acceptable 4 genuine! I recommend U placed the Porn away & get Busy with UR very own un-filmed version 4 a metamorphosis! So it is the the two one among U. Fools 2 URselves!
2016-10-09 08:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Melanie the fact of life is that there are so many images like this available on the internet that it has almost become the norm to peek. Do not be discouraged about this as he is not out running around on you and as long as he is just looking at some porn sites and not chatting with these lasses then what is there to be concerned about. Perhaps someday you two might even look together just for something different to do and discuss.
2007-08-06 05:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, 3 or 4 times is no big deal and it has NOTHING to do with you being enough for him. Guys are visual creatures, they like to look at naked pictures...women need to get over the idea of "he shouldn't want to do that, I should be enough for him" because that's apples and oranges...
You are enough for him sexually (I would assume)...but you aren't running around naked all the time and sometimes it's just kewl to appreciate another naked form.
2007-08-06 05:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should get upset...ive went through that same thing before.they think its stupid for us getting mad about them looking at naked women...but if we were on there looking at naked men it would be different...it pisses me off...i feel like im not good enough too...i told my bf not to talk about it and if i catch him doing it ill unhook the internet...lol
2007-08-06 05:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get mad then yes, you should be mad. If you do not, then you shouldn't. It's not so important that you feel a certain way, but to ask yourself why you feel that way. Talk about the way you feel with your bf. A stronger you equals a stronger relationship.
2007-08-06 05:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by libra_100270 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should go in there one day, get reall bossy, take your shirt off and make him whack off on your boobs while he's looking and them (yours) and the pics on the net. you will both feel better afterwards and then you will have gained a sense of empowerment over him and your ability to go in there not get upset and make him do soemthing like that.
2007-08-06 05:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Destructor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men like to look! As long as he is only looking you should not be mad.
2007-08-06 05:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by handyman7799 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋