My boyfriend and I have been dating for a good long time now. Our relationship started off amazing we got to know each other and we weren't all over each other physical. Our relationship has been great and we have supported each other through many issues. I think we have a strong relationship and that he won't leave me if he gets sex. Recently he and I have gotten increasingly physical. We touch each other alot..down there..we also have cyber and phone sex. We both think we have a mature relationship and we think we're ready for the next step. We love each other very much and he treats me with so much respect. He's truly a dream come true. Do you think we should go ahead and go for a home run?
2007-08-06 05:22:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm on birth control [becuz of my really horrible cramps] and i'm turning 19 soon and we also would use a condom
2007-08-06 05:37:29 · update #1
sounds like you guys are really into eachother, I would say yes.. he seems like a great guy, perfect for you! have fun :)
2007-08-06 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooo......... U didn't say "mature relationship" did you??? So ya think u r ready for the next step? And what would that be? Huh? Say what?? Pregnancy?? U've already stepped over the line, hon...... it's just a matter of time. So, get the yellow pages out and start perusing the MD's out there. Go around to the flea markets and look at baby furniture, etc. You'll need maternity clothing too. And if u think an abortion will solve everything, well.......... u r even more disturbed than I realized. U r a loser, hon, sorry........
2007-08-06 12:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him he thinks you will ever be married to each other. If he says yes and you are ready to have children you could consider it.
Do you read the questions on here ALL THE TIME from people who are knocked up and going through agony about their relationships, parents, abortions, etc.?
Having sex will not ruined your life. But the consequences are real.
2007-08-06 12:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not. Once you go all the way, it's going to be too much. You're not going to know what to do with the emotions. Plus, if you do it once and decide not to again, you're taking a chance of him not staying with you because he might want more. Sex is for marraige. You're telling this person that you love them so much that you want to have children with them. That's the entire point of sex, to reproduce. And if you don't end up staying with this person, what are you going to do? You will never again be able to give somebody all of you. You won't have your chastity to give the man you marry. Sex is supposed to be something special that you save for the person you marry. If you really love him, wait until you're married. It shows that you respect him and want to save it for something more special, marriage. When you really can give everything to him.
2007-08-06 12:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and if you feel you are ready. Having sex is a big deal, not only emotionally but physically as well. If you do decide to do it please remember to use birth control or some kind of protection. If he loves you, he'll wait for you. Good Luck to you!!
2007-08-06 12:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I all depends on how you feel. If you feel that you are ready for the responsibiltiy that comes with going to the next step then go ahead. If you still are unsure them dont and wait until you are really sure...Know one can really tell you when is the right time...It all depends on you, just be careful and use protection....
2007-08-06 12:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by puertolinda2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both not seeing anyone else and you're old enough and make sure you use contraception of some kind then YES!! Go for it. Good Luck & hope this is the start of something big x
2007-08-06 12:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both ready for it just take the next step, but be carefull its a very big step and can make things come crashing down. It happened to me.
If your both ready just go for it!!
2007-08-06 12:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Skynyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you are older and planning on marrying each other. Hold off as long as you can, it will give you that much more to look forward to as man and wife.
2007-08-06 12:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? If you to both are ready, and are ready to expect anything that happens, then go head. All the blessings are with you.
2007-08-06 12:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Finally Got It 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both ready, why not? I mean, it sounds like the perfect relationship! (: Best of luck to you both.
2007-08-06 12:26:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋