ladies- when did you loose your virginity?mature answers only please.?

Question

okay first off- no im not a pervert. im going into highschool this year and i'm curious. because i've heard that most people loose it in highschool, especially after prom.i know its relly private and you definetly don't have to answer. but if you dont want to answer, just move on dont say anything mean please. and if will answer, was it out of love, curiosity, pressure, or something else? do you regret that you did at that time, or do you wish you would have waited? i dont have any sisters, my mom was married when she was 14, and the girls that have had sex at my age, aren't the type that i would take seriosly.not saying that if YOU had sex at 14 you're a bad person, just saying all the girls at my age that have, are very, well, odd. so if you could help me out that'd be great! thanx <3 Dani

Answer 1

I had just turned 13 and it was a HUGE mistake. My best friends brother pressured me into it. I thought it would make me seem more mature because he was older, but all it did was make me feel bad about myself for a long time. Don't make such a big decision based on what anyone else does (even your best friends) once you lose it you can never get it back. good luck.

Answer 2

I was 20 and it was out of a combo of love(turned out not to be the real thing though) and curiosty. I had dated the same guy form 15 until nearly 18. We had agreed to wait. Some making out but not all the way. We were going to get married right after I turned 18 but about a month before I found out he had 2 girls pregnant. I guess I was supposed to wait but he couldnt lol. Anyway it took me a couple of years to get that serious about a guy again. I am glad I waited because I really didnt need the risk of pregnancy while still in school and I was mature enough when I did start having sex to fully understand that a relationship isnt just about the physical stuff which is really what 99% of teen guys are after. The biggest thing is if you do decide you want to have sex please use protection, a condom preferably because it will help protect you from more than just pregnancy. There are a lot of nasty stds out there and you cant tell who has them by looking at them.

Answer 3

im 16 and havent lost it yet, and dont plan 2 until im married, im not the type of person who thinks its cool 2 lose ur virginity, i think its cool if dont! think of it this way, if u lose ur virginity now u might get pregnant and that person might leave u 2 raise the child on ur own, also lets say the guy dumps u , and u marry in ur future, i think this , somehow, will ahhect ur future relation ship with ur husband, i mean i think its just more romantic and even right 2 leave it for that someone , dont go on giving it 2 people who dont deserve it, show them that u r not a toy 4 their use n ur not 4 free , ok im gonna tell u a story my dad told me...lol..i talk 2 much..its not actually a story its more like a dialogue between a rose and a pearl. once the rose was talking 2 a pearl and was saying that im beautiful and people just love me , but im soo sad cuz they only plant me 2 use me 4 a while n let me die off and then they forget about me, the pearl said well im very rare im well hidden under the sea and people have 2 work verrry hard in order 2 get me , and when they do their happiness is beyond comparison, 4 i am remembered and everlasting, so my dear friend dont put urself in a position of a rose, be like a pearl, beautiful, elegant so that ull be remembered and not thrown aside..this story also refers 2 covering up ur beauty ..by not showing 2 much from ur body cuz u c thats how a rose is everyone sees it beauty, but a pearls beauty is hidden until that true person who deserves it get it...HOPE THAT HELPS :p

Answer 4

I had sex when I was 15(it was in July, and the next month I turned 16).
I made the decision with my boyfriend(who I love very much).
I don't regret it at all. I felt ready. My boyfriend is very respectful and nice to me, and he would never make me do anything I didn't want. If I had been going out with some other guy I don't know if I would've done anything with him. But I'm glad I did with my boyfriend(we've been going out for a year and 2 months right now)

I think it all depends on how mature you are, not really the age.
As for the prom thing, yeah that does happen. I'm planning on getting a hotel room with my 3 friends. I think that'd be a lot more fun :)

Answer 5

I was 18 and we talked about it for months before we actually did it. We wanted to make sure we were both ready as it was a first for both of us.
I don't regret my first because I really thought we would stay together and get married. What I regret is the flings I had after we broke up. I wish I would have waited for the love of my life. My first will always have a special place in my heart, but I am now married to a wonderful guy that gives me more love and attention than I believe I deserve!!

Even if you think you are in love and absolutely going to get married, wait until your wedding night! It will make it that much more fun!

Answer 6

I was 17 and thought I was in love but looking back now i was not and do regret it i wish i would have waited not that it was bad the guy was very caring and he clearly loved me but i just wish that I could have given my first time to the guy im with now he is the love of my life and to share that experience with him would have be way better then it was at 17.
do it when your ready just remember you only get one first time and what seems like love in high school is usually not love

Answer 7

I lost my virginity at 15. Bad mistake...I should have waited because I thought my first time was going to be special but it was really painfull, short & quick. I don't regret the person I lost my virginity with. I've known him for about 10 years and now he is my current boyfriend of 3 years. My advice is to wait until you're postive that you're ready. If I knew that it was going to be like that...I would had waited until I was at least out of high school.

Answer 8

I was 16 when I lost it and I am 23 now.

I wish that I had waited until I was older (at least 18) and in a loving, long-term relationship. I would wait until you've been with the guy at least 6 months to a year. The guy I lost it to ignored me afterwards and it really hurt my feelings. (Plus, it was really boring.) Try to wait at least a few years. Trust me, you will not regret waiting but you may regret losing it too soon.

Answer 9

I am a product of the 80's and I did not lose it until I was 20. I think I was better off waiting until then. 14 is way too young. I wouldn't have been able to handle it. I would have felt terrible. Dont forget, once you lose it, you can't get it back and there will be lots of consequences to deal with.

Answer 10

I lost mine wen i was 17. I'm from the uk so the legal age is 16 here. The guy that i was with was really sweet and my first serious boyfriend, i did it because it felt right at the time. we broke up a month after and i was a little bit gutted, but i never regretted it for a minute. Theres no point in regretting sumthing you've done because at some point u really wanted to do it. anywho. Just make sure ur ready, dnt worry about wat other people have said or done, it's up to you but it has to feel right.