how do i ask a cute guy out that is a close friend but don't want it to ruin our friendship?

Question

he is very sweet,and kind but doesn't mind to get rough with sportsor me a little if i am tackling him or something

Answer 1

well, first off....even if you do get pass the asking him out thing...what if the relationship doesn't make it...then you have still ruined a friendship.....before you even do this make sure it is really what you want and you are not just doing this because you are lonely or some other reason....do you find yourself getting jealous when you see him talking with other girls??? if you still feel you want to go for it...then be STRAIGHT UP!!!! he is supposed to be a close friend...shouldn't you be able to talk to him about anything?? i would want it that way...especially if i were considering a relationship with him...let him know that it is just a thought...you were just wanting his opinion on it too....good luck ~smile~

Answer 2

You're taking the risk every time you do this, the only full proof way to not ruin the friendship is to not date. But good luck!
~Bob

Answer 3

i wouldnt, this has happened to me and as a result our friendship was ruined and i had known the guy my whole life...y dont u just wait and c where the relationship takes you

Answer 4

i dont think u should go straight 2 d point,i believe u should try 2 do things that would make him fall in luv with u.coz being straight might make u loose ur friendship.

Answer 5

If you don't want things to change, don't ask him out. Love is a crap shoot no matter what you do. You have to decide if your friendship is worth risking.

Answer 6

I'd give it a shot by talking to him about your feelings. You never know, he may feel the same way about you

Answer 7

ask him out when you have him pinned to the ground, don't let him up until he says yes

Answer 8

very carefully.