Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months now. She drinks and i dont (i really look down on it), so im never there when she goes to these parties and such. She knows that i dont like it when she drinks but still does. She promised me she wouldnt go so far as to get drunk, just a little buzzed. But the other day she lied to me, saying she wasnt feeling well due to food poisoning, but then later confessed she had drank wayy too much the other night with two of her guy friends, who are also my friends and im pretty sure they wouldnt touch her. So what should i do? should i give her another chance? i really like her but im very frustrated with her drinking problem.
2007-08-06 04:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by olnavybean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you should worry that she'll do something that'll bother you. Doesn't sound like she has a problem with it.
I'd look for someone you have more in common with.
2007-08-06 05:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have a friend like that. She is a girl, and a friend, but not a girlfriend, only because she doesn't want to be.
Anyway, she never lays low. She is always dabbling in treachery, and I worry about her everytime I don't know where she is, because my imagination that fills in the blanks is pretty morbid.
2007-08-06 04:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who "looked down" on drinking, but I believe there is nothing wrong with drinking. If you don't trust her and don't approve of what she does, then you need to end this now. Alcohol does not cause cheating. I will never date a guy who "looks down" on drinking again. I don't drink very often, but I think it is a silly thing to fight about in a relationship, and I refuse to date someone who "looks down" on anything I do. So break up with her if it bothers you.
2007-08-06 05:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and her obviously have some differences in lifestlyes. A girl who is still very much into partying and hanging out isn't really ready for a serious relationship to be totally honest. She may want one and really like you but not enough to chill out. Your two months into this and she is lying already....think think think...
2007-08-06 05:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be a good friend to her and she'll finally realize what she mi.sses by acting the way she does
2007-08-06 05:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Denisuka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh.. i think you could do better, if she lied about that, how can you really trust she wouldnt lie about somethin else a little more serious
2007-08-06 05:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Obvious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop her *** like a bad habit.
2007-08-06 04:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋