what would you do if your boyfriend nags about you?

Question

the reason i say this is cause my boyfriend nags about me not listenning to him , but i do listen to him and this is always like everytime he says something to me , and i know what he is saying . but when he says you always jump to a different thing when iam talking about a mop , i come out like the sky is blue . and i correct my self from this he has told me that i do this all the time. the reason why iam like this is cause i get everything fast . like i already know what he is going to say , so he gets piss , but is not becuase i dont want to listen to him, lately he is nagging all the time makes me feel so sad , he has no patient for me . when he does something i have patient for him . so lately i just got tired of him nagging, i just had to explode, end up arguing. please help me with this. what should i do

Answer 1

Just calm down and let the boy talk. Don't finish his sentences. Bite your lip and when he's done... you'll be happy you did. You'll see better results this way. If he's just a jerk and wants to nag - he's looking for an easy way out... simple as that.

Answer 2

You are not married to this guy. If you're tired of the nagging, drop him. Otherwise, stop complaining.

Answer 3

Maybe you have ADD? It might be a good idea to try and focus a little more on what he is saying. Its obviously bothering him and you both. Compromise is key.

Answer 4

well at least he is just a boy friend so you can dump him without a divorce. Life is too short to be miserable with an unsypathetic bozo.

Answer 5

compromise.

take the time to listen to him then count to 10 in your mind before you give a response.

maybe this would help? take care.