Why is this? I barely talk in this one class, yet this guy likes me. He always teases me though, but I can tell he does. Whenever I'm waiting by the classroom doors before lunch he always comes up to me and just checks me out right in front of my eyes and everything. It's always been this way for me.
Yet when I'm more outgoing, I feel like I'm shooing them all away? It's not that I'm being obnoxious, I just don't get it, maybe they see me as vulnerable?
2007-08-06 04:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, they don't see u as vulnerable. It's just that when u r alone, u r more approachable. When u are shy/quiet, going about ur own business, occupied with ur own thoughts, etc., not expecting to be noticed, that makes u more approachable. It takes the pressure off a guy to impress, amuse or entertain u and gives him the confidence to approach u. Girls who "stay busy" or have a goal in mind to accomplish......or seem to have a purpose to achieve, something to do and places to go, always catch a guy's attention in a positive way; there's an air of mystery about her. A guy is much more likely to approach u if u r alone, than when ur with others. When u r with others, he may think it's rude to interrupt u.
2007-08-06 04:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys sometimes like shy girls more than outgoing girls because the shy girl is more mysterious to them. Guys like a challenge and getting to know a shy girl is more challenging then getting to know a very outgoing person. It could also be that when you are outgoing the guy feels like you are stealing all the attention and most guys like to have the attention on them. There could be other reasons but I hope this helps!
2007-08-06 11:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys like a girl with a bit of mystery and someone who is a bit of a challenge to get or figure out. When you live your life like an open book, then there's nothing left to figure out.
2007-08-06 11:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had an out going friend who some people thought was hysterical but most guys were turned off by her aggression and she came off as obnoxious. maybe you do act obnoxious or too talkative or you say stupis things to be funny.
2007-08-06 11:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of guys are just plain horny and will chase after anything with a pulse.
See Dateline's To Catch a Predator. Those guys are DEEPLY disturbed.
2007-08-06 11:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys think you holding something back and wanted to break out of your shyness. Most shy girls I like are cute though.
2007-08-06 11:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by i_ride_spinners04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are shy, there is a lot of mystery to you, and they want to get to know you more to fullfill their curiosity about you. They just cannot resist it. Men love mystery in a woman.
2007-08-06 11:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats becuz all guys like that in a person and its hard to explain but every1 like ppl like that most of the time
2007-08-06 11:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lady_K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your wierd when your outgoing.
2007-08-06 11:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, i dont see a problem.
2007-08-06 11:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋