I am about to move in with my boyfriend. I know it is the right thing for us right now. I am just scared because this is the first time I will be leaving my mom's house. I also don't know what it is going to be like to live with a man (I lived with my mom and my sister only all my life). Any advise?
2007-08-06 03:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lady Y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Living with another person is one of the hardest things you'll ever do.
One of the things to ask yourself is whether everything has been defined. Who pays what bill and what percentage? Is this a house or apartment? Are you on the mortgage or lease? Who does what chores around the home?
2007-08-06 03:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady Y if you are mature enough to move in with your boyfriend then get ready for a different life. Things will change but you'll get to know each other much better and may even find habits of each other that you weren't aware of and aren't that fond of. Mom and sister will always be there for you to share your life with, both positive and negative so remember this also. Fear is very natural but at sometime in our lives we all move out and learn to spread our wings and grow up and mature. Best of luck.
2007-08-06 10:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it one day at a time. Be happy and considerate to each other. Not every day will be a perfect day but soon you will learn each others ways.
Just as a woman I would say to be sure to keep a savings or a stash of your own in case you ever have to leave for any reason. It doesn't mean to think negatively but if things were to ever go wrong you want to have means of moving forward and not having to feel obligated to stay because of money issues.
2007-08-06 11:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't really know someone until you live with them. You might want to set up some ground rules before you sign the lease.
2007-08-06 10:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u will learn with this living now if he is the right guy for you :)
2007-08-06 11:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by samy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
moving in with him will make u know nore things about him but just be careful.
2007-08-06 10:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋