In fact she falls for someone else and you see her her holding his hand, becoming happy and hugging him. Do you have a reason to be sad? Should you take this as a defeat? Should you consider that other guy a better man and feel sad about yourself? PLease be honest with your answers.
2007-08-06 03:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in a situation like that once....u shouldn't be sad...if u take rejection really serious to your heart, just calm down for a while and get back to your game....maybe she just didnt feel the same way u felt about her...everyone's feelings react quicker than others...but u should never let another person intimidate u and make u feel bad.
2007-08-06 03:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, u should calm down and remember that this isn't the end of the world for you. You can be sad but don't take this as a defeat because if u really like the person then go fight for her. Don't ever consider that the other guy is a better man if u don't know who he is and don't feel sad about yourself. If u really love the girl, then tell her how u feel and she might feel the same way. If she doesn't like you and u tried everything to win her heart then maybe it's time for you to move on and find somebody else that's better than her. There's a lot more girls better than her.
2007-08-06 12:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by xxasianchiqxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel sad, rejected, or less of a person than anyone else. All this means is that you are given another opportunity to try again with someone else. What if the next girl you meet is the one that you will be with for the rest of your life? You would have missed her...Defeat is short-term, learn from it, call it an experience, and go for the next one! And good luck...
2007-08-06 10:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Coach E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mourn a couple of days, then move on. It happens to everyone. Keep busy, get some exercise, hang out with your friends, avoid the girl in question, and have some fun. In time, you'll get over it, and you can set your sights on a new girl. It's just the way things go. Don't take it so personally.
2007-08-06 10:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she personally reject you? If so, it's a loss but hers. Of course, you will naturally feel that you are less than you truly are. It happens. Never believe that the guy she is with is better than you. He is just more appealing to what she likes in men. You do appeal to someone it's not her. Don't feel bad about yourself. Just keep looking for someone new.
2007-08-06 10:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you in love with someone who you've never been with? I understand that you can fall in love that way, but you need to make sure you LOVE HER. People confuse love with lust all the time also.
You can just feel sad, what else can you do.
2007-08-06 10:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you arent saying if the 2 of u were ever a couple! rejection is Not easy, times a healer, i believe you are a teen? if so relax theres going to be others and u probably will do a little rejection yourself, in other words, get over it!
2007-08-06 10:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by alangj91761 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Sorry about ur situation....BUT think of it this way
SHE has to be sorry, she lost a great guy like you. Just think
you loved her, but she didnt.. so its her fault she lost you. Dont think that U lost her, think the other way around. Trust me, like that you will feel a lot better.
And i am sure, there is a better girl on her way! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-08-06 11:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why I love her in the first place. But let me ask you this, does she know how you feel about her?
2007-08-06 10:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure you turly loves her but if u say you do then you have the right to get mad a few days and get over it. life goes on.
2007-08-06 13:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by JENNY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋