My boyfriend and I are having a problem, i just visited him in his office as we work in the same compound and while we are talking, he just said thank for visiting and we will speak later, i felt hes kicking me out and when i said that to him he said he didnt mean it this way, am i being sensitive here or its just not nice from his side saying that...appreciate your answers
2007-08-06 01:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Nani S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
he is trying to keep his job.
2007-08-06 01:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by dali333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to tell you in a very polite way that he needs to get back to work.
Because he loves you, he would not admit this to you.
See, there's a certain amount or a certain extent which a person can allow his love life to interfere with his career, even if that person wasn't overloaded with work to do.
You can enjoy some of your lunch breaks together, rare quick-hello visits, but never over do this.
Let YOUR time together be YOUR time... and allow both of you to enjoy a healthy working environment with interference of personal matters.
2007-08-06 08:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you're having a problem at all. You most likely spent too much personal time with your boyfriend at work and he thought he might have a boss notice. Save your visits for outside of the office or lunch.
2007-08-06 08:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Business hours are not the appropriate time to be visiting your boyfriend. He was just trying to stay out of trouble at work.
2007-08-09 11:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. are you down there all the time trying to talk as he is trying to work or is this a once in a while ordeal. are you allowed inter-office dating? is he usually a asshole?.. goods things to know before we make a proper decision
2007-08-06 08:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by whiskywildcard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he needed to get back to his work before he got in trouble
2007-08-06 08:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋