You just found out your Mother in her early twenties was a stripper, or your father was convicted of a terrible crime, and served time. Would that change what you think of them?
2007-08-06 00:33:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would laugh about my mum being a stripper but if my dad committed a truly terrible crime I think it would tear my life apart... Being a stripper doesn't really hurt anyone... and so long as there was a reason for her doing it i.e. needing money and that she doesn't do it anymore, I don't see the harm in it... If my dad committed a crime and hurt someone then I wouldn't be able to look at him in the same way again... I don't know whether I could cut him out of my life but it would certainly destroy our relationship
2007-08-06 00:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I was younger and had higher expectations of life, I would have been devasted.
Now I know that life's experiences can either make you or break you. If my parents had been what you suggested, I could see that activity in their past opened them up to be the good people they are today.
2007-08-06 07:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope providing they had been good parents to me and given me the proper love and that I loved them in return I would not see a big problem with this. Look everyone sometimes in their youth makes bad decisions and sometimes they will haunt people throughout their lives. But the examples you give are nothing to make me think any less of parents.
2007-08-06 07:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be cracking up if my mom was a stripper and if my dad was a crime man i would be scared of him
2007-08-06 07:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
Though it may make me wonder about any violent or self worth problems I might have taken in from via environment or genetics.
2007-08-06 07:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Davis Wylde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no mainly because everyone needs a second chance . the past is in the past if they have changed thier ways ... and becaome good citizens then i don't see a problem.........they are your mum and dad and probably love you to death........ let there past stay in the past .............and don't hold it against them..........everyone has a history,
2007-08-06 07:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter what they had done in their yesteryears what matter is that they are your parents and you should thanks to them that they had brought you in this world
2007-08-06 07:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by poonaforyou_2006 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would it? Are they still your parents.
Did that change?
2007-08-06 07:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by matthehat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely not becuase how they are now is more important then how they were
2007-08-06 07:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by )*-*sweet*-*( 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how did you know about my parents?
2007-08-06 07:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by ninjaadam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋