I kind of need advice; I have a mad crush on this boy, he's 16, I'm 13. He thought I was fifteen/sixteen. He used to be in a band with my brother, but they don't really talk anymore... But my brother's told me he thought I was really cool (even though we'd never really talked). He's invited me to sing with them a couple of times, and then we stopped talking after the band split up. I got to be friends with one of his other friends, and a few months later he told my boy that I was really cool and that kind of stuff, and out of nowhere he started emailing me. I have a pretty severe inferiority complex, and I'm really shy, I get really nervous when I have to talk to people. All the girls in our town would KILL to talk to him, he denies it but I think he knows deep down he could have whoever he wanted. But he's assured me that he really likes talking to me and I think he's being honest, and he thinks I'm really mature for my age, ("I always thought you were older, you act like an adult")
2007-08-05 23:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by XXX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The point is, everyone thinks I'm mature, but I have really low self confidence so I don't know how I really am. I can never keep a clear head when I talk to him. So I was hoping for some advice on how to keep off his nerves, and how to talk to him without him getting sick of me. I've literally waited months- probably eight months- for this, and I'd completely given up hope after the band split up. I really want things to work out, at least be friends.
Just what do you think about the whole thing?
Thanks, have a good night
2007-08-05 23:35:42 · update #1
Wait a few years, 13 is really way too young ot be having a relationship.
2007-08-05 23:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Suitengu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so which you're working your tush off and hes out enjoying! i will understand your getting disenchanted yet in all honesty i think of considering the fact which you're exhausted and removed from residing house that it is starting to be a bigger deal than in step with possibility it choose be. i be conscious of while i'm that drained no remember what hubby does its gonna be incorrect! lol so i think of that the next day after paintings - do no longer telephone him, circulate back on your hotel or everywhere it is you're staying - run a astonishing warm bubble tub, pour your self a tumbler of wine and merely soak for an hour - then order your dinner and revel in it. do no longer telephone then you definately won't get so pissed off and it would not do him any harm to ask your self why you probably did no longer telephone. and he will ask your self sweetie so while he asks you are able to tell him certainly you have been exhausted and desperate to easily soak interior the tub and circulate to mattress. do no longer make any judgements once you're this drained, and lots from residing house. enable it circulate until you're residing house and comfortable and via then you definately will in all likelihood ask your self what you have been so disenchanted approximately before everything. good success to you sweetie! take care.....
2016-12-15 07:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I can honestly say that all men are liars (he was in a band with your brother, he liked you and you don't think your age ever came up?) Get real. Getting over a person you know to be a liar should be easy.
Sure some will even tell you they are different but they are. The other thing is that you are way to young.
2007-08-05 23:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by mith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wellllllll if you are worrying about looking stupid or him not liking you, then chances are he's going to get the wrong vibe about you :( he'll think you're weird, too quiet and boring.
Don't be scared to laugh. Don't be scared to crack a joke. Ask him lots of questions about how he's day has been and refer back to his answers later in conversation.
Good luck !
2007-08-05 23:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by CafeLate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and not worry about screwing things up, otherwise you will for sure. Just be normal and treat him like a friend and soon you will feel more comfortable with him.
2007-08-05 23:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you have any contact types like e-mail.. etc.. if so.. frist check out.. whether he has got any gfs already.. if not.. be friends.. atleast.. just forget that you are shy type.. when you talk to him.. keep him as a friend in mind.. once you reach age 20s.. you can ask out.. best of luck..
2007-08-05 23:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol you do sound really smart and grown up for your age. That is probably why he likes you. Be confident and outgoing and he'll like that
2007-08-05 23:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhmm you're a tad too young to be having problems like this, don't you think. and guys that age asking a girl your age is like asking for trouble!
2007-08-05 23:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Salvador C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't allow him to talk you into having sex with him. Don't ever let him know how insecure you are or that you think he is so great. Let him tell you how great you are.
2007-08-05 23:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋