i have a huge problem. i have badly screwed up with my gf and i need help i dont want to lose her?

Question

i have a huge problem and i need your help. im going out with my best friends sister. me and his sister were "feeling on each other". well made the mistake of telling him about it and now his sister (my gf) cant look at him the same. she got mad at me for telling him. well i also had told my other best friend and now shes afriad of them telling her parents. what do i do please help

Answer 1

You can only beg her forgiveness and promise her that yu will never discuss the intimate side of your relationship again and then stick to it. Whether she can forgive you for discussing such personal details with her family is another matter.
You have learned an important lesson here - that what goes on between you and your partner is PERSONAL and not for discussion with other people. What were you thinking of? You need to have a more mature attitude to your intimacy.
Good luck for the future - I hope things work out for you.

Answer 2

KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!!!!! She would be right in telling you good bye and never talking to you again. What would possess you to tell her BROTHER???? You'd better start apologizing, sending flowers, whatever it takes, because now I guaren damn tee that she feels that she cannot trust you. Think about it, you tell this one thing, what else would you or have you told. Are her secrets safe?? This betrayel being a form of deception, what other ways have you deceived her? Trust is a very valuable, and nowadays a very rare commodity. Something that is to be protected, treasured. You messed up BIG.
I wish you the best and good luck
~C~

Answer 3

OMG, you're an idiot. You need to just chalk this up as experience, and never do that to anyone again. I wouldn't go out with you either, and I wouldn't trust you. She is right to get away from you. Go tell her you are sorry, and you were wrong, and that you will never do that again, and DON'T do it again, that is personal and intimate, and you made her feel like she was cheap, and a loose person, and now she is humiliated.

Answer 4

Tell her that she shouldn't be afraid, and that it's better they all find out sooner than later...Also, talk to her brother and calm him down since it seems he didn't take it all too well. Also, take her somewhere like dinner or a movie and show her you aren't phazed by her brothers reaction. Maybe your standpoint will wear off on her.

Answer 5

You're right, you have a huge problem, your BIG mouth, plus you're stupid! What are you doing, bragging to them? It would serve you right if she broke up and never spoke to you again. How can she ever trust you again? If anything you've learned a big lesson. Stupid!!!!

Answer 6

Well,First of all Why did u do this? and now Give her a red rose..........with a sorry card and than tell her "that was your life's biggest mistake and will never repeat it,I swear...but i know its hard 4 u to believe on me as i hurt u this much...but that was not by intensely,but because of it pls not spoil your and my love...............As any one can love u this much because u deserve it....but without u Who love me?.......forgive your little baby,pls.............";Also give a beautiful gift.........than tell me result....OK.waiting.but never repeat it ok? bye dear

Answer 7

if you really love her, and she likes you,
you don't have to worry,just take it easy, let things settle down a little,the more you try now, the worse it will get, just cool it, and things will start to fall in place.

Answer 8

Buy her some flowers and say you're sorry and it won't happen again. It's hard to soothe an angry lady.

Answer 9

Gentlemen never tell!!!! You messed up badly!! I hate to say it, but I would never forgive you.

Answer 10

Ummmmm.... Quit opening your big mouth?