i.m 51 he's 62, at first he talked flowers and marriage that god had sent me to him for a wife, now he only invites me over for sex. can i get him back on track or is it hopeless
2007-08-05 22:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by valerie h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hopeless.....move on........but the good news is that u are obviously a hottie..GL
2007-08-05 22:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Man of Ideas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best of luck despite i think it is hopeless. once guys base their relation about sex then it is all about it. Sleeping on the first night can be a big mistake (even though I've done that and we do are in another stage than yourself). But as big girl, you should sit down and explain to him what you want in this relationship and if he doesnt understand then he is not worth it.
2007-08-06 05:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by apocaliste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya talk to him straight and tell him that you guys need to talk and hurry before you loose complete control. Tell him that this is not right and that you are not here only to fulfill his sexual urges. Let him know that you have had enough and that you mean serious things in a relationship.
2007-08-06 06:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by anwserme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go over tell him you don't want sex, that you only want to talk and enjoy conversation. If that isn't good for him then maybe you might consider dumping him.
2007-08-06 05:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by The Curmudgeon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck! guys have a one track mind, and you fed it on the first date. i bet you can get it back, but it's going to be hard (no pun intended =P) you should talk with him, explain that your looking for a relationship and that your not his lil sex kitten. just don't cut sex out all together.. it's like crack for us guys
2007-08-06 05:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by sebastian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him..,openly and discuss with him, regarding the future plans..and what you are expecting from him as ..etc..then decide.
2007-08-06 05:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....kinda hard to put it back on track....best way is to talk to him....tell him honestly that you are not only after sex but that you are looking for someone who will love you...if he doesn't agree, dump him...you don't want to be his sex toy forever....look for someone who will love you....
2007-08-06 05:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think it is time that the relationship become more serious. If he says no, then leave him.
2007-08-06 05:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanted a more meaningful relationship, then you shouldn't have slept with him after just the first date.
2007-08-06 05:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cari 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him. you are grown adults.
2007-08-06 05:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋