I'm 30 and my bf is 23? I think it's perfectly fine but others think he is too young what's your opinion?

Answer 1

Yeah there's a seven year difference between you 2 but if he's alright with it then don't worry. Have some fun, expose him to a side of life that he's never experienced yet. For example, Wine tastings, vacations to spots he's never been to before, Real playa s****. Ride the wave and stop letting someone who wishes they were you, steal your shine away from you. If you've got it like that, then don't shy away from it embrace it. Just ask yourself; " what are you in it for? " Older men do it all of the time, why not you?

Just as long as, you're not one of those types that likes to control a person just because they're younger than you - then I look at it as a beautiful thing. If you see potential in him allow him room to grow into that potential. Support him and watch how your blessings come too. Whatever you do don't bring personal baggage with you into this relationship.

God bless you and enjoy life, Pimp'n!!!!!!

Answer 2

Seven years isn't that much...at least right now. If the relationship is going to become permanent I would have a talk about how he's gonna feel when he's 33 and you're 40. The older we women get the more the guy seems to want someone closer to their own age. My husband is younger, and we were fine until I started getting near 40, now he doesn't want to be seen with me and we're splitting up so he can hang with friends closer to his age. There's no reason it CAN'T work, just keep the dialogue open.

Answer 3

This depends on every other person's view. It doesn't matter to you but to some people they think that it is not ethical. So, this is just the views of others...you do not have to be concern about others view as this is yours and his life. So??? Are you going to get into someone face if they are 50 and have a bf or gf that is half their age or younger?

Answer 4

Hey im 30 to and my gf is 23 also.

Ive been with her for 4 years. Its fine dont pay attention to what others say.

As long as he treats you good and give alot of love and attention thats all that matters.

Answer 5

If you ever want children then the age gap is a problem. I am not going to say it isn't going to work but the guy would have to be exceptionally mature and most guys around that age are not mature yet.

Answer 6

If you're happy who cares what others think. Age, race and religion shouldn't matter in relationships it's how you and him feel about each other and that's it. If people don't like it oh well they're either jealous because they don't have enough balls to do it themselves or they're jealous because younger guys or girls won't go for them and you've landed yourself a younger guy.

Answer 7

Older women make better lovers! I have always thought that and dated women 5 to 15 (or more) years older than me.

Lets see, I was 17 and she was 38
18/35
20/32
25/34...

The h*ll with what other folks think.. If he makes you happy, and you make him happy, that's all that matters.. I wish yall the best, and many fun nights lol

Answer 8

That is your business! Forget what people say! But maybe this will help. My cousin just had a lovely & large wedding. Her now husband is 23 & she is 29..good luck..

Answer 9

If you are happy and it is working who cares what others think Enjoy the time you spend together and have fun life is short live it

Answer 10

For me it's ok and age doesn't matter and the most important to loving to each other and I had my 4 aunts are they older of their age than to their respective husbands since when they getting married until to having their kids.