I've got a crazy crush on her and can't stop thinking about her. She's giving me clear signs that she likes me.
2007-08-05 21:24:26 · 30 answers · asked by ineednostinkingid 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, what great answers. I'm truly amazed at the different answers. And to clarify, I'm somewhat wealthy and not in to bad of shape either.
2007-08-05 21:42:53 · update #1
At school, I'm surrounded by 20 year old girls and let me just say: sure, they may be legal, but most of them are still pretty darn stupid. Now, I'm not saying she's stupid for liking you, but she's still at an age where her horomones are raging and she's contemplating all sorts of 'crazy' thoughts. So while I don't want to discourage you from this girl, because I don't KNOW it's not real, but I would proceed with caution. If you really care about her, you want to make sure she isn't doing something she may regret. You're far more of an adult and are much more responsible. I would talk to her, get to know her a lot. Maybe go out with her some but dig in subtle ways to find her what her motivation is for pursuing you. I'm sure you're wise enough to be able to sense whether what she's feeling is lust or love, and even then, love for you or love for being in love. Good luck!
2007-08-05 21:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Zac 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are two possibilities here you are either loaded with money or she has lacked a father figure in her life and she wants a mature man to look after her.
Sure it is fine. Many men pursue these relationships all I can say is if you are married DO NOT DO THIS you will want to crawl back to your wife when it is over and she probably wont take you back.
You are both pretty much using each other. You get to have a relationship with a hot 20 year old and she gets to feel what a suger daddy feels like. So enjoy it while it lasts because it is unlikely she will be with you on a long term basis.
2007-08-06 04:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my job I've seen people 100% healthy in one day and die the next day. While you are still breathing, alive and well, what are you waiting for? The "is it right" question will get answered only after you give it a shot. Go for it dawg...
PS: I am assuming this is a legit relationship, meaning that you are single, available, and this is not an extramarital relationship/affair.
2007-08-06 04:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by vijay888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number if both parties want the same thing get on with it dont feel ashamed just because society frowns upon age gaps it shouldnt be like that. In my opinion ask her for a drink and take it from there! hell if i fancied a guy who was 24 years older than me i wouldnt let a number stop me life is short enough so grap life and take chances enjoy!
2007-08-06 04:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by sexiebum 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds pretty creepy and a tad bit pathetic. But not illegal. Whatever. Do what feels right. The great thing about this country: you can do pretty much anything you want as long as it doesn't affect other people. You know why? Because no one cares.
2007-08-06 04:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your kids cause there probably closer in age to the 20yearold than you. Get real it may be legal but totally immoral. How would you like a 42year old man after your 20year old daughter?
2007-08-06 04:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually against relationships like this but i may suprise myself yet today. When the woman is older like 20 in your situation i usually would restrain myself given im your old enough to be her father but sometimes these relationships do work out but i warn you bad things can come from relationships with huge age differences!
2007-08-06 04:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Koty F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she wants to be with u 4 all the rite reasons, then go ahead, go 4 it. Age aint nuthin but a number.
2007-08-06 04:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by coco puffy. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your 20 year old daughter to go with a 42 year old man? There's your answer. She might think she knows what she's doing but she doesn't. For her sake and yours...leave well alone!
2007-08-06 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by miss_ruby_topaz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way, 20 is too old for you. Why dont you for 16, 14... 13? Are all the girls at the middle school interested in you, too?
2007-08-06 06:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by snowbird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋