I really like this guy, we've been dating a few months but the last time we went out he didn't contact me for over a week and ignored a few of my texts. I figured he was done with us and that was that.
Yesterday my X boyfriend comes into town. He'll be in town for another few weeks but lives on the east coast and I'm on the west. Well I was sort of upset at this other guy so ended up fooling around with my ex. And even made plans for him to spend the night, hey I thought the other guy wasn't gonna be around anymore.
Now the problem. Guy #1 contacts me today and tells me he realy likes me and wants to continue seeing me and that he is sorry about not answering my texts, he was going through a ruff time, etc.. Guy #1 lives near me.
What should I do now?? My ex and I have plans to go out tommorrow and he's planned to stay at my place. And Guy #1 wants to make plans and stay at my place this weekend. What have I got myself into! HELP! Neither know of the other.
2007-08-05 21:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cancel plans with both guys or if it was me ild proberly go with number one cos if you get back with an ex it proberly wouldnt end up working out again.
so yeah go with the number one cos people do go through rough times an have bads days and stuff and maybe he just wanted to be alone for a while and not talk to anyone so number 1...
2007-08-05 21:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Skye-dez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you're looking for. If you want a relationship, think about who actually values you, not just sex. Think about guy #1's excuses. I'm sure he could have texted at least once to tell you that he was busy.
If it were me, I'd think about who I'd really want. I know my ex already & why he's my EX in the first place. Do i want another try or do I want something unexpected from someone else? Then, i'd tell the other person the truth without being mean & say, "im sorry, this was unexpected." & go from there.
2007-08-05 21:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by judy bo-booty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell guy #1 that you have already made plans. Tell him that you have someone coming in from out of town, and they will need a place to stay. If he asks who, tell him. He is the fool that did not return your texts. Just tell him that you thought that you would not be seeing him any longer when you made these plans with your ex.
2007-08-05 21:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like guy #1 really loves you, but verify. Ask him why he was having a rough time. If you think it is a valid reason (be reasonable, put yourself in his shoes) then you should stick with him. Either way I think your ex might be after "something" and you need to be cautious.
2007-08-05 21:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl what can i say that happend to me about me going with this guy we went to high school together and after we graduated we went out on date the first and only time then he kiss me on the date so i though he likes me and wants to be my b/f well anyways so we went home and he never call me nor e-mail me nothing so after a month that he ignore me he told me sorry for that kiss and that was nothing but a friendship kiss i felt like **** that he did that to me i though he like me so what i am telling you is ignore him now make him jeauslo he came around now if you still like your x go back with him and if this guy #1 is still ignore you he is no good, good luck
2007-08-05 21:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Dead Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell guy #1 about ex. Problem solved.
2007-08-05 21:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, probably not the best advise but which one do you really like? if it is guy #1 so then just end it with #2....
hope that helps....
best of luck
2007-08-05 21:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell guy 1 your busy and work out which 1 you really want
2007-08-05 21:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite the slut aren't we??? Haha, i hope you get pregnant, then neither one will want anything to do with you!!! I love it!!!
2007-08-05 22:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jay d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋