My life is falling apart. I just realised my best friend is not a friend at all and i want to cut her without getting into a big drama, i dropped my precious i-pod, my laptop is locked with a stupid password and i hate school. What should i do? I feel numb-just lifeless and empty. I want help. Answer any one of these problems or just general advise. Please.
2007-08-05 21:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
About the ipod-i have to wait until tomorrow at school to find out if someone handed it in. I didn't totally lose it yet.
2007-08-05 21:11:14 · update #1
My laptop is locked by my parents, and everything is blocked. I know it's immature to be upset about that, but they're controlling everything and they aren't the type to sit down and chat with. I'm not even allowed to have my friends call to chat.
2007-08-05 22:03:15 · update #2
I hate to minimize your feelings and situation but you need to get over it. This is a tiny snag compared to the real problems, tragedies and challenges that lie ahead for you in life.
take a deep breath, pull yourself together, and deal with it one step at a time.
2007-08-05 21:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by saya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well about your best friend..you can just reduce talking to her and then slowly just cutt off, make sure you really want this. She will probably understand over the time that you don't want to be with her anymore.
About your laptop, who locked the computer? did it happen by you? or did someone else lock it? I don't know what the exact details are but then you try and get help from school with the IT dept. or something.
Check with the lost and found about your i-pod you should be able to find it. Or put up posters (if you dropped it in school) with the details and your contact details and ask people to return it to you if they find it. Hopefully you will find it:)
Why do you feel numb? You should go do something fun, like so something you've never done, that will cause excitement and something you will remember doing for the rest of your life. If you keep thinking life is numb and empty then it will be that way, and then you wont have the motivation to do anything. So the only person who can help you is you yourself!!!:)
2007-08-06 04:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont gree with the person who say."get over it". No one knows your level of depression, and no one knows what you feel inside. So my answer to your question is.....#1 if you found out your best friend isn't your friend, then you shouldn't be afraid to cut her loose. Obviously she dosn't care about you, so that shouldn't even be a problem to let her go, Or you can talk to her about it....#2 If i lost my precious cell phone, i would be in distress to, but all i can say is, work on getting a new one....#3 call the manufactuer of you laptop and they can assist you in reseting....#4 finally, school is what you make of it. As an adult, i hated school as well, but i realized that working on a job is as equal as school. Either you can hate it or quit, or you and deal with it and be the best and get to a higher level. Don't feel depressed about life. Always remember that depression is a pressured feeling, and when you sit and think about what is going wrong in your life, thats just negitive meditation. You have the authority to stand up and make decissions. Make the decission to be a overcomer
2007-08-06 04:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by λngelicϐeauty Ƹ̴Ӂ̴Ʒ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with saya-these are minor problems compared to serious illness, financial troubles or being stuck in a stressful job. Worst case scenario-you find a new best friend, learn to live without an i-pod or figure out how to get a new one and school will be over in a few years.
It may be time to start practicing being an adult.
2007-08-06 04:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok , now first of all get a bottle of liquor any kind , i think one bottle will be enough . Get locked in your room , put some depressive set of tracks on and start drinking and feeling sorry for yourself . Then keep drinking until you pass out . The next morning feel sorry for yourself a little more while you vomit in the bathroom , then if you feel like you are done being sorry for yourself , unlock the laptop get your ipod fixed tell your ex best friend to go fack herself and then if you are satisfied find some new friends :)
2007-08-06 04:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ivan P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK so drop the friend ,the laptop & ipod are things they can be replaced-School well its important even if u hate it its going to help you when you are out on your own- finish school its all in your head so you can change your thoughts about shool & get thru Hope this has cleared everthing up for you
2007-08-06 04:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Im ok UR ok 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're worrying too much. I know that having trouble with friends can be hard, but you'll make new ones. Your i-pod is just a thing, and eventually you'll get your laptop back.
Best Wishes
2007-08-06 12:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont provide enough details abt your problem.plez clear it in details.
2007-08-06 04:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by leaves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋